Dude, I tell my 11 year old the same thing. And my 46 year old husband. "What's for dinner" implies that you are expecting it to be served up for you. Try asking "Hey Mom, what would you like to do for dinner tonight? I cook? You cook? We cook together? Go out? What are you thinkin?" instead of the same old 3 words "Whats for dinner" which is the bane of our overworked and overtired existence. Someday you will know WHY she says it.
I have recently had to work on "letting other people take care of themselves" because to be honest, taking care of grown adults and capable children drives a woman to drink. We mothers will go crazy screaming at everyone and never realize it's because they never do ANYTHING around the house or for themselves. Do you refill the toilet paper? do dishes? clean your room? take out the trash? WITHOUT BEING ASKED??? THINK ABOUT IT.
Mothers were not born to slave over a house and stove all day to feed and clothe you. You need to grow up and start taking care of your MOM instead of the other way around.
We are people too and we deserve some caring for once in a while. You're "looking for a job for 3 months?" really???
And the rest of you idiots saying "Your mom's a bitch welcome to the club" you will grow up to be very lonely people.
Is it normal that my mom gets mad when I ask whats for dinner.
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Dude, I tell my 11 year old the same thing. And my 46 year old husband. "What's for dinner" implies that you are expecting it to be served up for you. Try asking "Hey Mom, what would you like to do for dinner tonight? I cook? You cook? We cook together? Go out? What are you thinkin?" instead of the same old 3 words "Whats for dinner" which is the bane of our overworked and overtired existence. Someday you will know WHY she says it.
I have recently had to work on "letting other people take care of themselves" because to be honest, taking care of grown adults and capable children drives a woman to drink. We mothers will go crazy screaming at everyone and never realize it's because they never do ANYTHING around the house or for themselves. Do you refill the toilet paper? do dishes? clean your room? take out the trash? WITHOUT BEING ASKED??? THINK ABOUT IT.
Mothers were not born to slave over a house and stove all day to feed and clothe you. You need to grow up and start taking care of your MOM instead of the other way around.
We are people too and we deserve some caring for once in a while. You're "looking for a job for 3 months?" really???
And the rest of you idiots saying "Your mom's a bitch welcome to the club" you will grow up to be very lonely people.
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Whats for dinner?