Most couples do not sell the house and split the profit. More often one partner keeps the house, especially if they have custody of children. You may be in a good position to keep the house and not pay him every month, which might explain his desire to keep visiting to "maintain" the house, as perhaps a way to keep some form of control over the property, or "earn" his monthly payments.
Do not let him back into the house for any reason.
Consult a lawyer, or at the very least tell him that you won't pay him every month and refuse his offer to come back into the house to "maintain" it. If something needs to be fixed do it yourself or hire someone.
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Consult a lawyer.
Most couples do not sell the house and split the profit. More often one partner keeps the house, especially if they have custody of children. You may be in a good position to keep the house and not pay him every month, which might explain his desire to keep visiting to "maintain" the house, as perhaps a way to keep some form of control over the property, or "earn" his monthly payments.
Do not let him back into the house for any reason.
Consult a lawyer, or at the very least tell him that you won't pay him every month and refuse his offer to come back into the house to "maintain" it. If something needs to be fixed do it yourself or hire someone.