Is it normal that my husband watches porn?

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I've caught my husband in the act with porn many times. I have tried asking him if he wanted to watch it together. I've tried asking him if there were different positions he wanted to try (I don't think there are any more positions out there for us to try because we pretty much try everything under the sun). He will lie to my face about doing it even if he knows that I know. I have left the door open for him and it really hurts that he chooses to masturbate to porn instead of pursuing me. It also makes me upset that he lies to me about it. Is this normal? I'm not sure what else to do. I feel like I'm meeting more than halfway on this subject.

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago | pl

    ^ this does not work on scumbags like this. Sorry.

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  • Carl
    12 years ago | pl

    You're husband doesn't know how lucky he is to have a wife that is so open and honest that she would be willing to share everything with him. If you were my wife, we'd be having a better sex life than you've ever imagined. I could think of a million ways to show my appreciation for a woman like you -- in and out of the bedroom.

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  • rred1
    12 years ago | pl

    Thank you everyone for all of the wonderful advice! I guess I just want what any girl wants. I just want to fulfill my husband's fantasies!

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow. I guess there are a lot of scumbag men like this out there. Makes me sad to know this. You need to get rid of him because he is not going to change. I don't get the thought process in a mans mind that chooses porn over their woman but it's hurtful and ridiculous. I wish you luck, but in my experience men like this will never change b

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  • joemommamia
    12 years ago | pl

    Next time you catch him doing this you need to teach him a lesson. The lesson being that you are better than what he is watching. You need to blow him each and evry time you catch him. And make it sloppy. Just get over whatever hangups you may have about what I am saying - just do it. The more you blow him the more he will get off on you instead of porn. Make sure to blow him when you catch him and do it right at the computer. You will see that after enought times he will come to you not the porn. This really works!

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago | pl

    i think its healthy to have a sexual relationship with yourself and your partner. i like to get off on my own sometimes and so does my husband. i dont see anything wrong with that. but if he is using it instead of having sex with you then thats a problem. your sex life sounds pretty good by the way you described it. he just wants some alone time sometimes. why dont you have some "alone time" and see if it helps you understand.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago | pl

    Me and my bf broke up coz he wouldn't stop watching porn:(

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    • slingbladedutchoven
      12 years ago | pl

      I am sad. I asked my boyfriend to stop waching porn. with tears in my eyes I explained that it hurt me and made me feel disrespected. I have had to address this at least three times now during our 2 year relationship and I feel like he does not really care as the porn is more important than my feelings. I dont know what to do about this anymore. I pasted a photo of a naked man on my computer to see how he feels if I watch a guy with a much bigger penis than his..and get off. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but cannot deal with this..t hurts and angers me. How would he feel if he thought I was masturbating to an image of a hot young well-endowed man who was begging me with his eyes to fuck him? I bet he wouldnt like it one bit.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm a girl and I don't see a problem with my boyfriend watching porn. Love and sex are very different things, and they don't feel any emotional connection to the girl in porn.

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  • pay2play
    12 years ago | pl

    There are some things guys like to do alone. And fantasise about alone. Why can't you accept that for what it is. A man thing. He is a lucky guy. But it works both ways

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  • sspfm
    12 years ago | pl

    My husband watches porn as well i believe that it is just the sound that gets him going, but if he is addicted to it then that is not right.

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