You know, OP, every time I hear stories like "he changed, promised to change" I just think the person in question just learned to hide it better. I don't mean to make you more paranoid, though. It's just that I have a good friend whose love adventures I follow, and he's told me stories in which he goes great lengths (some you wouldn't believe) to lie better and better each time he's faced with situations like these. Being a woman, I empathize with the girls he dates and think he is scum, even if I'm friends with him (I do tell him that and tell him to stop being such an ass). Anyway, his stories send me back to all the times I was actually lied to and how I simply refused to see all the signs and obvious clues.
On the other hand, your husband could be just having some harmless fun and it's nothing to worry about. Personally, I'd be very upset if it were me, I can only find it harmless when it's someone else's relationship because my own emotions aren't involved. And yeah, watching porn is normal and it's not cheating :)
Is it normal that my husband watches porn?
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You know, OP, every time I hear stories like "he changed, promised to change" I just think the person in question just learned to hide it better. I don't mean to make you more paranoid, though. It's just that I have a good friend whose love adventures I follow, and he's told me stories in which he goes great lengths (some you wouldn't believe) to lie better and better each time he's faced with situations like these. Being a woman, I empathize with the girls he dates and think he is scum, even if I'm friends with him (I do tell him that and tell him to stop being such an ass). Anyway, his stories send me back to all the times I was actually lied to and how I simply refused to see all the signs and obvious clues.
On the other hand, your husband could be just having some harmless fun and it's nothing to worry about. Personally, I'd be very upset if it were me, I can only find it harmless when it's someone else's relationship because my own emotions aren't involved. And yeah, watching porn is normal and it's not cheating :)