Is it normal that my husband wants sex on his time and not my time?

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I am 21 years of age and my husband is 35. Is it normal for my husband to reject me sex everytime i want it. When i get horney he always has an excuse why he cant give it to me. But everytime he gets horney he closes his eyes and rubs my butt and moans. Or when we are out in public he gets that way. He always had brings up in fights that i sleep with other men. And i dont he gives me sex at least one time out of the week but if i go on vacation and comes back he has great sex for 4 days and then holds it from me again. I wanna know if a man who gets horny the way he does if he goes behind my back and masterbates or is cheating on me. He is gone for work sometines from 8 in the morning until 9:30 at night. Is he really attracted to me sexually or is he getting his sexuall pleasure from another woman. Please help.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    I can't choose an option from there cause there's no "It's not normal" Without anything attached. Anywho, not normal. That must make you feel so neglected. I tell you what lady!! You may want it bad cause he's not giving it, but you can say no to him to. Give him a piece of his own damn medicine and hold out as long as it takes for him to say yes when you ask for it.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    It's normal that you have different sex drives, but I'd talk to him. If he isn't willing to sleep with you when you're horny then don't sleep with him.

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    • amber127
      10 years ago | pl

      Its hard not to sleep with him when he does sexy things to turn me on. He pushes me to have sex with him sometimes because he says he wants to please me.

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  • derenaro
    10 years ago | pl

    You need to have a serious talk with him. And if he won't talk to you he doesn't deserve you. No reason to waste your life in an unhappy marriage just because you already made a commitment. Get out if he won't do therapy.

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