So your brother in law won't help you save your marriage.
Are you afraid of violence?
If not, I would do nothing for either of them! If you go out to work I would not return until they had gone to bed and I would leave my son with them both. Tell them you hope that they will both be very happy together but you are no slave!!
You could always put on headphones or cotton wool in your ears so that you cannot hear her instructions.
Down tools until your husband learns to respect you too - his mother has had her time.
Tell everyone you know about this and make the two of them look very strange but you must remove yourself from that house as much as possible.
Have you been able to speak to your own family about this for their advice?
lol...i shud buy her aa pet dog..no i hvnt spoken to my family bcoz i had chosen for marriage they r not happy eith the marriage they wont help..even if they,they will spoil it completely..i am stuck everywhere..cud not find way to b out..My husband is loving but wen it cmes to her mother he is just a pupet..I feel sorry for my child dat i hv spoiled his life too..
Also m nt working i have no career..thou i m educated but left job for my child..i knw i a in very pity condition after marriage..befor marriage i was princess of my family but they r no more with me.
Often you can get a small dog 'free to a good home' in the ads or at the pound - this will provide her with the love she wants from her own son.
If you are not afraid of violence then do nothing for anyone only your son! Just as she is obsessed with her son. You are not a puppet and if you don't make her comfortable in your home then she won't want to stay. I would say that unfortunately she has the advantage here - but I wonder how long she has lived with you? What age is she and how healthy / active?
You need to get defiant. For example, play your music loud, do not have food that she likes in the house, do anything that you know annoys her!
You need professionals in to speak to your husband and her because this is no example to set to your young son. Tell everyone you can to shame them both - wierdos!
Thanks a lot for yr help joybird!!!!I think i have to seek some professionals advice before taking any harsh decision to get apart fro my husband i love him lot, just bcoz of dat crazy lady who had already spoilt one marriage..Mine will be next for her but she doesnt care for it..
Is it normal that my husband want to sleep with his mother
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So your brother in law won't help you save your marriage.
Are you afraid of violence?
If not, I would do nothing for either of them! If you go out to work I would not return until they had gone to bed and I would leave my son with them both. Tell them you hope that they will both be very happy together but you are no slave!!
You could always put on headphones or cotton wool in your ears so that you cannot hear her instructions.
Down tools until your husband learns to respect you too - his mother has had her time.
Tell everyone you know about this and make the two of them look very strange but you must remove yourself from that house as much as possible.
Have you been able to speak to your own family about this for their advice?
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Just had a thought. She is 'lonely' she needs to grow up!!
Or you could buy her a little dog that she could love and have it sleep with her :o) Sounds like she needs a lapdog!
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lol...i shud buy her aa pet dog..no i hvnt spoken to my family bcoz i had chosen for marriage they r not happy eith the marriage they wont help..even if they,they will spoil it completely..i am stuck everywhere..cud not find way to b out..My husband is loving but wen it cmes to her mother he is just a pupet..I feel sorry for my child dat i hv spoiled his life too..
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Also m nt working i have no career..thou i m educated but left job for my child..i knw i a in very pity condition after marriage..befor marriage i was princess of my family but they r no more with me.
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Often you can get a small dog 'free to a good home' in the ads or at the pound - this will provide her with the love she wants from her own son.
If you are not afraid of violence then do nothing for anyone only your son! Just as she is obsessed with her son. You are not a puppet and if you don't make her comfortable in your home then she won't want to stay. I would say that unfortunately she has the advantage here - but I wonder how long she has lived with you? What age is she and how healthy / active?
You need to get defiant. For example, play your music loud, do not have food that she likes in the house, do anything that you know annoys her!
You need professionals in to speak to your husband and her because this is no example to set to your young son. Tell everyone you can to shame them both - wierdos!
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Thanks a lot for yr help joybird!!!!I think i have to seek some professionals advice before taking any harsh decision to get apart fro my husband i love him lot, just bcoz of dat crazy lady who had already spoilt one marriage..Mine will be next for her but she doesnt care for it..
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Good luck to you.
I'm sure your marriage will be good if you can just get her out of it.
The professionals will tell them that their behaviour is not normal.