Is it normal that my husband uses spanking as domestic discipline?

I'm in the same kind of marriage too! I agreed to this beforehand. I get the lecture, the same feelings as you--scared, ashamed, humiliated, he's not done till I break down into sobs--but as much as I hate it, I know it really helps my behavior. Just think how we might be if we weren't corrected. My hubby is hot, loving, and gives me the world--and he loves me enough to correct my bitchy ways.