Wow, I wouldn't have thought this would be seen as such a serious situation. I still love him, he's good-looking, smart, and charming. And sometimes, I appreciate the dd, like it has helped me not overeat and gain wait, for fear of punishment, and such. I guess maybe my main angst is because on a few occasions he has spanked me for things that I feel were total accidents, e.g.. dropping and breaking something, running late, forgetting an errand. It's the stuff like that that scares and angers me, and yet he gets very angry when I argue that they were accidents. Says that I am careless, don't care enough about what he wants, and so on.
When he says your careless and don't care enough about what he wants, thats plain manipulation. And does he seem to care about what you want? This anger that scares you, there is a reason its scary, its because its no longer about punishing you when you're bad, it's about him being able to physically hurt you when you make him mad. He obviously has little self control and will just continue manipulating you making everything that goes wrong your fault. He is acting like a grown man throwing a temper tantrum. Also for the weight gain, you should want eat healthy and take care of yourself for you, not because you're scared of being spanked...
I don't see this as a serious situation. Your obedience is a really important part of the natural order. For some women that will mean submitting to punishments while other men assert themselves in other ways. Your husband is physically punitive and you just need to accept that.
Is it normal that my husband uses spanking as domestic discipline?
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Wow, I wouldn't have thought this would be seen as such a serious situation. I still love him, he's good-looking, smart, and charming. And sometimes, I appreciate the dd, like it has helped me not overeat and gain wait, for fear of punishment, and such. I guess maybe my main angst is because on a few occasions he has spanked me for things that I feel were total accidents, e.g.. dropping and breaking something, running late, forgetting an errand. It's the stuff like that that scares and angers me, and yet he gets very angry when I argue that they were accidents. Says that I am careless, don't care enough about what he wants, and so on.
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When he says your careless and don't care enough about what he wants, thats plain manipulation. And does he seem to care about what you want? This anger that scares you, there is a reason its scary, its because its no longer about punishing you when you're bad, it's about him being able to physically hurt you when you make him mad. He obviously has little self control and will just continue manipulating you making everything that goes wrong your fault. He is acting like a grown man throwing a temper tantrum. Also for the weight gain, you should want eat healthy and take care of yourself for you, not because you're scared of being spanked...
I don't see this as a serious situation. Your obedience is a really important part of the natural order. For some women that will mean submitting to punishments while other men assert themselves in other ways. Your husband is physically punitive and you just need to accept that.