Is it normal that my husband spend so much time with my female cousin?

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  • 2krazee
    10 years ago | pl

    That's what I tried telling him, I feel really uncomfortable with the amount of attention he is giving her but he just gets mad and tells me that I'm sick for thinking wrong because he considers her his cousin too. I asked him to put himself in my shoes and try to imagine what he would feel like if the tables where turned but he just gets mad.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      10 years ago | pl

      perhaps the problem is that you say you think nothing is happening
      but then you treat him as if it IS

      you have to pick one or the other.

      but you've already decided what he's doing is wrong no matter how innocent it is... so what's the point in even trying to listen to him if you're already going to call him guilty?

      and that's probably why he's mad... you've already tried and judged him.

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    • 1000yrVampireKing
      10 years ago | pl

      He does not care about you or he would understand. This is a very common trick men play. It is a way to assure they always have some one new to fuck. I only say keep your cousin because blood is thicker. I myself would always pick a family member over a lover. I would keep your cousin and kick your husband out.

      The Trick:

      *Guy gets a girlfriend

      *guy makes friend with girlfriends friends and family

      *guy starts flirting with one of girlfriends other associates

      *He leaves the girlfriend

      *he goes on with a new group of friend(her friends)

      *cycle repeats

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      • iEatZombies_
        10 years ago | pl

        This.

        This is what my fiance always warns me about when my friends are having relationship problems due to 'just friends' routine. Wouldn't you know it, guys know guys better than girls know guys. Listen to them, OP.

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        • 1000yrVampireKing
          10 years ago | pl

          Thanks so much. I am always glad to help. I just see this sort of thing a lot. So glad to know I am being listened to.

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          • iEatZombies_
            10 years ago | pl

            No, thank you. The fact that you don't follow the stereotypical primitive mindset speaks volumes about your character. Not many have such character.

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            • 1000yrVampireKing
              10 years ago | pl

              Well thank you. I try my best. After all we are not cave men I think all people should learn to act civilized.

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    • ccjigsaw
      10 years ago | pl

      Why not start showing interest in another guy just to piss him off and see how he likes it? It could be his cousin or brother. He sounds suspicious for getting mad about it

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