I'm thinking early on in life your sexual experiences were rather extremely less than pleasant. You had become used to the part where men try really hard to not even have to take you to dinner. So many just want the "wham, bamm, thank you ma'am". It's a sad part of society these days. Along with kids not getting the discipline they need these days, the males seem to forget (or are not being taught) a basic lesson in life, "Treat a Lady like a Lady". (Until they gives you reason not to). But anyway, so many guys these days want everything for nothing. They don't feel they should let or encourage the female to orgasm before the man does, so that he in turn shows the woman that he's not a selfish jackass. ANYWAY, women get so used to that kind of treatment, so they feel in their mind it's something about them, and it just really cuts into their self esteem even further. Women become numb to being treated like crap. Then it becomes a "fune, just fuck me, Get off me, and Get the hell out. It being so hard to meet a guy that will treat women as the deserve. So it's a cycle, it comes to point of survival and then low self esteem leads to not much sex or not many partners even kicks the self esteem even further down. So there in turn when the women do meet someone that WILL AND DOES love them as they are, it's so hard for them to forget the past treatment and the emotional climb to Get out of that rut they have been in. It's obvious your man loves you, and your pussy. Be thankful he puts forth that effort even 3-5 times a week would seem like a miracle. But you say every night. I have done things over the years and there was a few times I would not worry much about "her" needs, desires, and wants. But once a friend I went to school with, she was separated from her husband heading to D court.Like you she had a hard time when it came to just laying back, take a deep breath, and above all, relaxing.So we were naked, I had her lay down on couch, then I put blindfold on he. I took her hands and out then under her butt cheeks so she was sitting on them. I turn lights down low, and told her to just concentrate on whatever she feels.I used things like ice cubes, feather, my fingers w and w/o oil, and various things while encouraging her to express what she feels or was feeling.
It really helped her to open up, and a few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that up to that point in life, I had given her the best sexual experience of her life. (Up to that point,anyway) I apologize for being so long.
Is it normal that my husband loves my pussy and should that turn me on?
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I'm thinking early on in life your sexual experiences were rather extremely less than pleasant. You had become used to the part where men try really hard to not even have to take you to dinner. So many just want the "wham, bamm, thank you ma'am". It's a sad part of society these days. Along with kids not getting the discipline they need these days, the males seem to forget (or are not being taught) a basic lesson in life, "Treat a Lady like a Lady". (Until they gives you reason not to). But anyway, so many guys these days want everything for nothing. They don't feel they should let or encourage the female to orgasm before the man does, so that he in turn shows the woman that he's not a selfish jackass. ANYWAY, women get so used to that kind of treatment, so they feel in their mind it's something about them, and it just really cuts into their self esteem even further. Women become numb to being treated like crap. Then it becomes a "fune, just fuck me, Get off me, and Get the hell out. It being so hard to meet a guy that will treat women as the deserve. So it's a cycle, it comes to point of survival and then low self esteem leads to not much sex or not many partners even kicks the self esteem even further down. So there in turn when the women do meet someone that WILL AND DOES love them as they are, it's so hard for them to forget the past treatment and the emotional climb to Get out of that rut they have been in. It's obvious your man loves you, and your pussy. Be thankful he puts forth that effort even 3-5 times a week would seem like a miracle. But you say every night. I have done things over the years and there was a few times I would not worry much about "her" needs, desires, and wants. But once a friend I went to school with, she was separated from her husband heading to D court.Like you she had a hard time when it came to just laying back, take a deep breath, and above all, relaxing.So we were naked, I had her lay down on couch, then I put blindfold on he. I took her hands and out then under her butt cheeks so she was sitting on them. I turn lights down low, and told her to just concentrate on whatever she feels.I used things like ice cubes, feather, my fingers w and w/o oil, and various things while encouraging her to express what she feels or was feeling.
It really helped her to open up, and a few years later a mutual friend of ours told me that up to that point in life, I had given her the best sexual experience of her life. (Up to that point,anyway) I apologize for being so long.