Is it normal that my husband jacks off while im upstairs

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So last night I walked in on my husband jacking off, When I asked him what he was doing he told me watching porn. Obviously I got upset because Im just upstairs why cant he come and have sex with me? What also upset me was that he was secretly doing it down stairs in the bathroom. We have sex not as often as we should, but when we do it, its very kinky and however he wants it..literally. Am I wrong to feel upset? We have been married for 7 years and I feel so unattractive and very worthless if he'd rather watch a porn then do it with me.

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  • soupbowl21
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm a woman who watches porn. For me, it is completely separate from my boyfriend. When he is at work, I masturbate to porn. Or even if he's home, and I just want to have a quick self-session. It's nothing to do with you, I'm sure. He is no less attracted to you.

    I don't think about porn when I'm with my boyfriend. I think about him. And there is nothing like the real thing. Porn is just a way to have a quickie by yourself with little to no effort involved. Masturbation is perfectly healthy.

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    • woman3
      11 years ago | pl

      thank you for your comment. I also watch porn and masturbate to it myself, I also know he does this too. I think thats why I was so surprised that I got upset. He even commented to me about that when we talked about it yesterday when he got home from work, I told him the only difference between me doing it and him doing it, is that Hes at work when I do it and I dont have him here to have sex with. Him on the other hand I was literally upstairs. I think that falls into why I was upset about it...

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    • Legion
      11 years ago | pl

      Thumbs up +9000

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    • PumpkinKate
      11 years ago | pl

      This.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago | pl

    Everyone jacks off I caught my 1 yo brother doing it once i think he saw me doing it

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    You could be right but then again what options do you have? Give him some
    Time and try to talk about what's bothering you. Understanding is each other is the key.

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