I feel the same about my husband but the worst thing you can do is critisise him for it because he will act out and not look for a job to simply spite you.
Go out and get a paper for the vacant adverts and make a call infront of him so that he knows that if he doesn't get a job before you do, he will be stuck at home being a house husband. That should be motivation enough for him.
You being the breadwinner will probably hurt his ego alot and this will motivate him to change.
But that is exactly what he wants do to do. It's not the first time we've moved to britain and it is allways like this. he stays at home at the computer and does not care. He does not like to work. I thought this time was going to be diferent because of our child but he is still the same. It's not fair on me.
Is it normal that my husband is taking more than 2 month to get a job?
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I feel the same about my husband but the worst thing you can do is critisise him for it because he will act out and not look for a job to simply spite you.
Go out and get a paper for the vacant adverts and make a call infront of him so that he knows that if he doesn't get a job before you do, he will be stuck at home being a house husband. That should be motivation enough for him.
You being the breadwinner will probably hurt his ego alot and this will motivate him to change.
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But that is exactly what he wants do to do. It's not the first time we've moved to britain and it is allways like this. he stays at home at the computer and does not care. He does not like to work. I thought this time was going to be diferent because of our child but he is still the same. It's not fair on me.
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He is a lazy bastard leave that fucker
no offense he sounds like a bit of a loser. Get him on the dole and get yourself a job- but this is definitly NOT normal.