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We were watching "the girl with the dragon tatoo" and in the scene where the old guy forced her to an oral sex my husband got an erection. I thought that was so disturbing and made me feel sick. My husband said it was the thought of an oral sex not the disgusting scene. Do I believe him?
The Swedish version? It was a pretty well done scene, I got hard too. But it wasn't oral, he assraped her. never watched the american though.
And seriously, if you gonna give your husband shit for get hard on a radom film and make him justify his erections I pity the poor fella.
It sounds like you're looking for fuel to use against him for daring to be aroused at something that bothered you.
It's a movie. So technically the woman was actually willing since she was an actress willingly playing the role.
It doesn't matter if it was a rape scene or not in your eyes... it was fake.
Not sure what to tell you, except that your husband's erection is normal. I can, however, share something that may sound disturbing to some, as his erection seemed to you. I have already mentioned it somewhere here. In the movie Irréversible, during the 9-minute underground passageway scene, in which Monica Bellucci's character gets anally raped, I was extremely aroused and just didn't get hard because girls get wet. As much as it seems creepy to be turned on by such things as forced oral and anal rape, they're movies, with actors performing parts. It would only disturb me if either your husband or myself were sexually interested in anybody's actual pain and suffering. Now THAT would be disgusting and make me feel sick.
A sex scene on tv appears. Your husband gets hard. You get angry?
Seriously, if he's your husband, you've been with him long enough to know guys can get hard from a gust of wind.
"OMG, I'm so angry at my husband. I came home the other day and saw something that made me sick. It was the most disgusting thing I've ever seen in my life. He was in the kitchen, and had a bottle of chocolate syrup, pouring it into a glass of milk. Who would taint perfectly good milk with such a vile and evil creation as chocolate?!"
i saw the original. she was forced to give a man a blow job for money. However her revenge on him was epic, mixing sexuality and torture.
To be honest, I think many women want the 'sensitive' man from the 70s, the kind that seems almost soft. So when they encounter the fact that some men DO like rough sex, with a bit of RP or dominance play... it's a shock to the point where they get offended at the man for it.
or in a nutshell, sometimes men don't want to be girls with dicks. sometimes they like rougher things, and a touch of role-play. it doesn't mean they actually want to hurt anyone... it just means they don't want to be the women-inside-a-man's-body featured in those nicholas sparks movies and would rather be say... viggo mortensen in "a history of violence".