I see two problems here. Perhaps the two of you have different personalities as far as how much attention you need. I love my boyfriend to death, but I also need time for myself, alone and with girlfriends. It's just something that, as a person, I need. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be with someone all the time, as long as it's something that is understood and ok with both of your personalities/needs.
That being said, I also find it concerning that you state you're always "begging" for affection. Even if you spend time apart, you shouldn't feel like you need to beg for your partner's attention. Like I mentioned, I like time to myself, but I make sure my b/f knows he's the man and I love him when we're together. You shouldn't feel neglected in your relationship either.
I think you both need to sit down and find a happy medium where, he gets some alone time if that's what he needs, but that you also feel secure in the relationship.
Is it normal that my husband finds my love an obsession?
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I see two problems here. Perhaps the two of you have different personalities as far as how much attention you need. I love my boyfriend to death, but I also need time for myself, alone and with girlfriends. It's just something that, as a person, I need. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be with someone all the time, as long as it's something that is understood and ok with both of your personalities/needs.
That being said, I also find it concerning that you state you're always "begging" for affection. Even if you spend time apart, you shouldn't feel like you need to beg for your partner's attention. Like I mentioned, I like time to myself, but I make sure my b/f knows he's the man and I love him when we're together. You shouldn't feel neglected in your relationship either.
I think you both need to sit down and find a happy medium where, he gets some alone time if that's what he needs, but that you also feel secure in the relationship.