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Me and my husband are married with 3 kids for 14 years its never been good enaugh for me he never made me come and he has sex ones a month and it is not satisfying what should I do?
Lately I watche the latest movie with marill strip that they going to therapy but they are 60+
I'm 39 and he's 46 only.
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"doesn't sense when I want sex"
Why does he have to "sense" it? You're an adult. Tell him when you want to make love.
Part of being in an adult relationship is communicating what you want with your partner. You can't just expect him to instantly know everything you want ... without ever telling him.
Does he even know you're not orgasming? I mean have you ever told him? Don't expect men to always "know" if you don't tell them.
buy a vibrator if he's not satisfying you. Does he know he doesn't satisfy you?
And go to couples therapy if you think you need it, but as a reference women hit their sexual prime at around 30, that is when they want to be most sexually active. Men hit their prime at around 18 (biology sucks). Lots of men do want sex after the age of 18 (luckily) but dont be worried that your husband, who is nearing 50, doesn't want sex that often. Especially if he knows you aren't satisfied afterwards.