Is it normal that my guy wants to change me, my looks?

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  • shefali
    11 years ago | pl

    we had a long discussion yesterday
    i could make out he is giving lame reasons for all my questions
    bt in the end i felt little guilty & not totally satisfied with the chit chat!
    next tym i ll punctuate him wenever he acts tht way

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago | pl

      Why did you feel guilty?

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      • shefali
        11 years ago | pl

        because he clarified that all he wants is to see me in different styled attires & all, he said he isn't ashamed, its jz when two ppl love each other they like to buy each other stuff n clothes acc to their own desires or fantasies..
        But I clearly remember he blurted out before that I am so simple & I should embellish myself..

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        • ccjigsaw
          11 years ago | pl

          Pish posh. I remember my bf told me I looked fat once. ONCE. I'm not fat and never have been, but those kind of comments stick with you. No wonder you don't want to change for him. Some people would just jump up and do it for him, but he really should like you for who you are. No offense intended, but if someone truly loves you they will not care if you doll yourself up :/ After he said you were "simple" he lost all chances.

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