Is it normal that my girlfriend won't blow me?

We've been together a long time, and it's just out of the question.
It's something I really want to experience.
She says she doesn't like it because she would feel slutty.
I've eaten her out numerous times, but not so much recently.
She feels guilty and denies me from eating her out. Even though I want to do it
We've been together for years, what gives?

Is It Normal?
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  • Once her friends start sucking dick and talking about how great it is she'll give in and suck it.

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  • clean your dick...

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  • This is a complete stab in the dark but maybe she doesn't like it because she would feel slutty. Might be wrong on that, though. You should get the truth from her own mouth. Then ignore it and ask us.

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  • Some girls just aren't into that kinda thing. Especially younger girls. You might want to see if it's with living in a relationship with no oral. If she's not down for it, then you can't stop bugging her about it. If you really love her though, you'll be able to do without.

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  • She doesn't want your d*ck in her mouth, deal with it. Some people don't like it while others do. She isn't obliged to blow you because you eat her out. You act like she has to compensate for the oral you give her, that's probably why she feels guilty.

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  • she's too young and stupid

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  • She is scared as hell. Get her really really drunk then take her in the room and problem solved. Then tell her the next day

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  • Maybe she doesn't want to? Keep trying! But if she says no, Don't ask again. Maybe she never wants to.

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  • It may be normal-ish but if you have done things for her down there then it is only fair for you and your member to get some attention. She probably has some pre-installed anti-blowjob programs when you brought her home and it'll take a complete reformatting of said program to make her compute things differently. Maybe you can ask her specifically why she doesn't like it other than feeling slutty (and try to get her to say more than "its gross/ I just don't want to/stfu") and ease her worries of why it won't be like that and how great it'd be for you. If that doesn't work then it'll either be a no-go or she'll open up eventually, maybe.

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  • She's probably of the opinion that a bj would be like it is in porn. You cum on her face and she gets called a slut, she swallows and gets called a whore or she spits and gets called disgusting or dirty.

    You can't really push it, just let her know it wouldn't make her a slut and it won't change your opinion of her then live with whatever her response is.

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