If you don't feel OK with this then this is probably the end of the line. You can't do it, you cannot get sexual pleasure from that and it would be impossible to bring you to accept this practice over an extended period, then that's it. You should also be aware that some desires may wear off and even disappear with the passage of time but equally they may get more intense and extreme.
For some people physical abuse and pain during sex is "must-have" even though (and quite rightly so) would call the police and take you to courte if you resorted to physical violence during e.g. an argument. But in the heat of the sexual excitement my wife has on many occasions asked me to slap her face. Not so hard as to cause any marking or scars but quite substantials slaps and according to her that just makes her feel totally taken and surrendered to my male superiority (which means and does nothing for me) but for her it's the point where her climax goes through the roof.
Different strokes for different folks. But if it's not up your street and it would be nothing else then mental rape on you to be forced to this against your will, then without finding a different mutual arrangement this could be the end of the line for your relationship.
is it normal that my girlfriend wants me to punch her?
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If you don't feel OK with this then this is probably the end of the line. You can't do it, you cannot get sexual pleasure from that and it would be impossible to bring you to accept this practice over an extended period, then that's it. You should also be aware that some desires may wear off and even disappear with the passage of time but equally they may get more intense and extreme.
For some people physical abuse and pain during sex is "must-have" even though (and quite rightly so) would call the police and take you to courte if you resorted to physical violence during e.g. an argument. But in the heat of the sexual excitement my wife has on many occasions asked me to slap her face. Not so hard as to cause any marking or scars but quite substantials slaps and according to her that just makes her feel totally taken and surrendered to my male superiority (which means and does nothing for me) but for her it's the point where her climax goes through the roof.
Different strokes for different folks. But if it's not up your street and it would be nothing else then mental rape on you to be forced to this against your will, then without finding a different mutual arrangement this could be the end of the line for your relationship.