I suggest that you give her a lot of distance and you yourself even more distance so you do not get hurt emotionally. You two are probably young and she seems to want to party more than a relationship. Girls like that usually want to see what is out there still. If I were you, I would not pick up every time she calls or even call back when you see her calling or see the missed call. When she sees that, she will either really miss you and want to see you or she will end the relationship. Start by never calling her unless she calls you and do not pick up the phone every time. Go out and have fun, you are in college and that is what she is most likely thinking. BTW, are her friends single? If they are, they are more than likely influencing her to go to party and not see you.
well there is the catch she has a roomate which she is single but does not go out to clubs or partys whatsoever and they known each other since they are young! her other friends are her cousin and his friends/roomates all guys, that does not make me happy at all because they all go in group together her being the only girl most of the time! But I do know that she is worth it, she keeps texting the whole she goes out telling she wants me to be there, etc. But then the deal is the story above when she has the opportunity to be with me she prefers her girlfriends
Even more so if the friend is single and is not a club hopper. The friend is most likely lonely when she is not around and she makes her stay and spend time with her or your girlfriend feels guilty about leaving her alone. Maybe when she is out and texting you the whole time she is just entertaining you. I feel if she was serious about wanting you to be there, she would see you every time she got the chance or is in the area.
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I suggest that you give her a lot of distance and you yourself even more distance so you do not get hurt emotionally. You two are probably young and she seems to want to party more than a relationship. Girls like that usually want to see what is out there still. If I were you, I would not pick up every time she calls or even call back when you see her calling or see the missed call. When she sees that, she will either really miss you and want to see you or she will end the relationship. Start by never calling her unless she calls you and do not pick up the phone every time. Go out and have fun, you are in college and that is what she is most likely thinking. BTW, are her friends single? If they are, they are more than likely influencing her to go to party and not see you.
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well there is the catch she has a roomate which she is single but does not go out to clubs or partys whatsoever and they known each other since they are young! her other friends are her cousin and his friends/roomates all guys, that does not make me happy at all because they all go in group together her being the only girl most of the time! But I do know that she is worth it, she keeps texting the whole she goes out telling she wants me to be there, etc. But then the deal is the story above when she has the opportunity to be with me she prefers her girlfriends
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Give up on her your not on the priority list. Go out have fun like she is enjoy yourself your whipped, girls don't like wimpy whipped.
Even more so if the friend is single and is not a club hopper. The friend is most likely lonely when she is not around and she makes her stay and spend time with her or your girlfriend feels guilty about leaving her alone. Maybe when she is out and texting you the whole time she is just entertaining you. I feel if she was serious about wanting you to be there, she would see you every time she got the chance or is in the area.
I'd have to agree with everything you have said.