Is it normal that my girlfriend likes me to fuck her while she sleeps?

Hi =)
A quick preceding note;
I'm recent to the site, probably my most personal post so far, hope the language isn't deemed too strong to get past the vigorous moderation too.

So, the question;

Is it normal my girlfriend likes me to come onto her whilst she's sleeping?

The thought of it genuinely excites her, and she deliberately teases me and goes to bed early sometimes to try and instigate the situations :$

This shocks me because she is not a particularly adventurous girl, and because it is not something i've heard of before.

I've heard of sleep fetishes, but for the person awake, not the other way around.

I was wondering how common this might be, has anyone heard of or experience anything similar before?
Does anyone have any idea as to where the attraction/excitement might come from for her?

I had a theory that maybe it provokes some pretty exciting dreams for her, as she's always trying to persuade me to lube-up generously first, maybe with the aim of the silly little game for me to finish without waking her? =P

But she always wakes up rather excited, so maybe she just likes being taken by surprise? :$

Anyhoo, all responses will be greatly appreciated =)

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  • I've never been brave enough to instigate this but I would also find this arousing, I have no idea what the psychology behind it is though

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  • I would actually find this quite exciting.
    I've never had it happen to me but I think it would be hot to wake up to my guy rubbing me all over my body or pressing his body against mine so I could feel his...
    I'm rambling, but you get the idea. :]

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  • I'm similar to your girl.
    A few times Ive faked sleeping, so my guy thinks he's getting himself off alone, then I'll wait for him to touch me or rub up against me and I'll 'wake up'. Now if he wakes up in the middle of the night he'll often wake me up for sex--so hot.
    I'd be a bit scared of him starting sex while I'm asleep, simply cause I wouldn't be wet and I could be sleeping in a position that would be painful if he started.

    If she's game, try it. Embrace your girl. :)

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  • Thanks for the response so far people! It's really appreciated =)
    Surprisingly very encouraging :$ ha ha
    But keep em coming, wouldn't mind more points of view and more votes =)

    Also a side-note: if anyone could post a translation of the french comment above, that'd be electric =)
    I'm working entirely off a mobile phone browser here and it can't be done.
    Anyhoo, thanks again commenters so far! ;D

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  • Normal, but not that common, but lots of guys wish there was more like her!

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