3. Speak to HIM, away from HER. Tell HIM that you don't want HIM around anymore! Also be sure he understands this is not a suggestion, this is not a simple statement of fact. Forbid HIM from seeing HER. Be assertive even threatening but DO NOT GET VIOLENT this will hurt you in the long run.
4. The next step goes by his reaction
a) if he gets violent then you must also.
b) if stays away you leave him well alone.
c) if he tells her what you said deny it and make sure it looks like a desperate move to split you up on his part.
d) if he continues to see her and says nothing you must reassert your position and keep pushing till he keeps away or gets violent.
Is it normal that my girlfriend kissed her guyfriend
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Simple!
Step by step.
1. Love her? Forgive her.
2. Don't forbid HER from seeing HIM.
3. Speak to HIM, away from HER. Tell HIM that you don't want HIM around anymore! Also be sure he understands this is not a suggestion, this is not a simple statement of fact. Forbid HIM from seeing HER. Be assertive even threatening but DO NOT GET VIOLENT this will hurt you in the long run.
4. The next step goes by his reaction
a) if he gets violent then you must also.
b) if stays away you leave him well alone.
c) if he tells her what you said deny it and make sure it looks like a desperate move to split you up on his part.
d) if he continues to see her and says nothing you must reassert your position and keep pushing till he keeps away or gets violent.