Is it normal that my girlfriend keep her shoes in the bed?

My girlfriend keeps her shoes when we lay in bed... Or when we watch tv, she puts her feet on the couch with her shoes on... I personally think it's gross... I mean, you walk outside with your shoes on, you might step where a dog pooped before or anything disgusting like that... Floor is dirty most of the time anyway... And a bed, which you lay in, is supposed to be clean right? I just find it gross not to take off your shoes when you're in a bed... Is it normal of her to do that?

Is It Normal?
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  • If she has her shoes on under the sheets in the bed, not normal. If she's just lazy and jumps on the bed to kick back, I think that's normal.

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  • hmm.. why don't you just tell her to take 'em off if it bothers you? lol.

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  • It would even be more fun for both of you if you had a true shoe fetish.

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  • Does she sleep with her shoes on? That would be a problem.

    Reminds me of a Seinfeld episode...
    George had to distract his new girlfriend so Jerry could grab the tape out of her answering machine--
    ...George takes her to to the other room and they both come back shortly--
    She says"that's what you had to tell me.. you're father wears sneakers in the pool?" Good times!!

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  • Women love shoes. Everybody knows that :-D

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  • maybe she is just more comfortable in her shoes.

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  • This is just... eeeewwww, so not sanitary. Personally I'd find it a really big turn off in that kind of relationship.

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  • Thats not right make her take 'em off!

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  • If I lie on my bed or couch with my shoes still on, I always have my feet hanging off the side.
    If I plan on staying longer, I'll remove them before putting my feet on the furniture.

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  • I think it's gross to put your shoes on furniture especially the bed. Maybe her feet are hideous and she's self conscious about them. She could wear socks at all times and they wouldn't expose her feet.

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  • I think I'd be uncomfortable leaving my shoes on to lay down, maybe her shoes are that comfortable.

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  • she loves her shoes XD

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    • She does actually...

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      • maybe you could buy her some "Microwaveable Cozy Boots" that she would love too and wear those instead ^___^ some things like footwear might be a security blanket in a way. ~ I'm like that with my phone for example, I must hold it all the time, or keep it close by ~ even when i wake in the morning its usually in my hand lol

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        • Do you unplug it if it's charging and you need to walk to another room?

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          • I don't plug-in my phone ~ its a separate battery charger cradle, and i have 3 batteries. ~ you can buy extra battery from ebay cheap.

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