Is it normal that my girlfriend is selfish in the sexual part of us?

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Hi everyone, new to the site, had to make a profile because I'm very confused at the moment.
Me and my girlfriend have been 'sexually active' for about 8 or 9 months now, we have been together for a year and three months. I love her to pieces, like any guy that is head over heels would.
Thing is, in the bedroom, she wants me to do everything to her. Any day we decide to do anything; she will always get what she wants. I'm so willing to give, maybe too willing?
If I ask her to do me, then she will go into a very jokey mood, and won't do anything for me. She has said that her arm isn't strong enough in the past. But I don't understand how that can be so.
I just don't get how when we are in a loving relationship that is secure and happy, she won't give me a 'release'.
Is it normal that I feel quite edgy? I find myself walking around with an erection, what seems like all the time, is this normal?
Why wont she just do me?
Is it normal for a girl to be selfish in the bedroom?
Thank-you everyone.

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  • skullja1
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm guessing she is a dominatrix. Dominatrix doesn't refer just to BDSM. She might like just receiving and not giving for whatever reason. She also might be slightly intimidated so talk to her and soothe her into it.

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  • kayla8
    12 years ago | pl

    if ur her first she prob doesnt really know what to do and doesnt want to look stupid or embarrass herself, so id agree with klag shes probs shy or nervous about it.... i guess its normal shell prob do it once and realize its not as bad as she was expecting..

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  • Klag1234
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe she's shy about it like I was. I used to be that way too but then I just did it.

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  • josh413
    13 years ago | pl

    what the fuck man, you are better of with one of those sex dolls haha well she probably has a past try talking to her about it as a grown up and not an asshole good luck

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    • tahuexo1
      13 years ago | pl

      How am I being an asshole?
      She hasn't got a past mate, sexually, I'm her first.

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      • josh413
        13 years ago | pl

        chill man i was just clowning on you, but, ive met a couple of girls who are that way, once they are satisfied is game over, but if she wont understand sex will never be fun, keep talking with her

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