Is it normal that my girlfriend is disgusted by oral?

A penis is supposed to go into a vagina, not a mouth. Therefore, she's entitled to be disgusted by it. Oral sex is a perk, not a right.

I would more than happily sacrifice oral sex for a happy relationship. Everybody has their likes and dislikes!

I firmly believe that when a person (male or female) comes to the realization that they love, tolerate, or despise performing oral sex, each person should get a small tattoo. Perhaps just 1, 2, or three dots. 1 for "love", 2 for "tolerate" and 3 for "despise". Very small, but in a spot where it can be seen by perspective mates. There is no worse thing that being with someone who wants it frequently if you despise doing it. Unless, perhaps, it is being the person who really, really like receiving but ends up with a partner who you find out too late abhors performing it.

I realize this idea is insane, but a guy can dream, right?

We haven't had sex yet either. She has a very different background on all of this sort of stuff (she's Chinese Australian, so her parents are Chinese but she was born and raised in Australia). She doesn't know when she will be ready for either, or which will come first.

I do love her, so I feel like to break up with her because of this is really shallow and selfish, but its hard. I guess I need better ways to deal with it.

Get used to it - no ones perfect. We all have our quirks. Some girls don' t do anal. If she wasn't giving you any pussy then you'd have something to complain about.

If she won't even give it a try, get rid of her. She can put it in her snizz to please her, but she can't put it in her mouth to please you, that's selfish bro.

It's just putting a penis in your mouth for a while. It's not that difficult. How can people be grossed out by it? Out of all the things to be grossed out of cocks ain't one!

X1frosty16, speaks words of wisdom, very mature for her age

I am the same way as your girlfriend. I really just can't give a guy oral. It grosses me out. Iv'e tried so many times to try and give it to my fiance because he loves it but i just cant force myself to when the smallest bit of precum gets in my mouth i gag. Not to mention if it smells at all like sweat i gag. I feel bad because he gives me oral and i try not to let him. But he says he loves to because i like it and he just likes doing it to me. But to make up for me not doing oral to him i have sex pretty much whenever he wants and try to experiment with other things, and i do give him hands jobs every now and then. It's not that I'm selfish I just phyically cant. but he loves me so hes ok with giving it up just like ive given stuff up for him. its all about the love lol and how much you care about someone

Use melted chocolate?

I'm not convinced that someone who refuses to give gratification selflessly makes for much of a long-term partner.

In all honesty, that'd be a deal breaker for me. Oral sex is a reasonable expectation in a relationship and, in the long term, it would lead to a constant feeling that there's something missing.