I used to think this too. My partner hated everything about most things. Turned out it was depression that was causing her to dislike everything around her. It took a lot to show her and to convince her something wasn't right but she went to the doctors, 100mg of sertraline later she has been much better. But it's difficult to keep her on them as when she feels good she tries to come off them. My advice.... If you love her help her see if you can solve it. Not saying it's the same case for you. But sounds a lot like it. If you can't deal with it, it's your choice. Probably best to make an exit from the relationship.
Depression is a horrible way to make people think that your a horrible person. In my experience it was constant talk about who she hated. What annoyed her. Who had done things wrong, the horrible people around her. Turned out everything was wrong. It wears you down. I'm a very positive person and for her to make me feel bad generally and exhausted from it made me realise something was very wrong. I love her very much but it was soul destroying being sucked into it.
So to all you who say things like "she's a bitch" no.... It's not always the case. Sometimes it can be a mental illness that can be treated. It just needs them to realise if your willing to help them and love them enough.
Is it normal that my girlfriend hates everything but i still love her?
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I used to think this too. My partner hated everything about most things. Turned out it was depression that was causing her to dislike everything around her. It took a lot to show her and to convince her something wasn't right but she went to the doctors, 100mg of sertraline later she has been much better. But it's difficult to keep her on them as when she feels good she tries to come off them. My advice.... If you love her help her see if you can solve it. Not saying it's the same case for you. But sounds a lot like it. If you can't deal with it, it's your choice. Probably best to make an exit from the relationship.
Depression is a horrible way to make people think that your a horrible person. In my experience it was constant talk about who she hated. What annoyed her. Who had done things wrong, the horrible people around her. Turned out everything was wrong. It wears you down. I'm a very positive person and for her to make me feel bad generally and exhausted from it made me realise something was very wrong. I love her very much but it was soul destroying being sucked into it.
So to all you who say things like "she's a bitch" no.... It's not always the case. Sometimes it can be a mental illness that can be treated. It just needs them to realise if your willing to help them and love them enough.