dude, i'm so in a similar situation as you are right now and it sucks.. she use to look all gorgeous and sexy for me, wearing nice underwear even, and doing nice things... when that all stopped.. and i thought she didnt love me anymore, or wasnt attracted to me anymore..
turned out it was 2 things..
1) she got lazy
2) she forgot about this stuff - i guess this is the comfort stuff..
I dont have advises, but i think it is still normal as long as she still makes you feel loved.. but if she seems cold also, then you may be in for something really hurtfull. prepare urself..
as for me, i communicated to my GF for months that i missed her sexyness and all ... after that she'd tell me sorry, and she would try again.. for a few times then totally go back to a "less hotter" her.. then i'd tell her again, she would sometimes say she'd buy sexy lingerie for me but never seem to do it or find time to do so. right now im feeling she's not into that anymore, and that I'm kinda just forcing her to be that again by telling her i miss her and all .. and it's not doing any good so far.. she's not rejecting it, but her interest in that just doesnt seem to be there anymore.. Im hoping this is just a phase..
So yeah perhaps just try telling her you missed her being like that and perhaps she'll come around.. good luck my friend.
Is it normal that my girlfriend does this now?
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dude, i'm so in a similar situation as you are right now and it sucks.. she use to look all gorgeous and sexy for me, wearing nice underwear even, and doing nice things... when that all stopped.. and i thought she didnt love me anymore, or wasnt attracted to me anymore..
turned out it was 2 things..
1) she got lazy
2) she forgot about this stuff - i guess this is the comfort stuff..
I dont have advises, but i think it is still normal as long as she still makes you feel loved.. but if she seems cold also, then you may be in for something really hurtfull. prepare urself..
as for me, i communicated to my GF for months that i missed her sexyness and all ... after that she'd tell me sorry, and she would try again.. for a few times then totally go back to a "less hotter" her.. then i'd tell her again, she would sometimes say she'd buy sexy lingerie for me but never seem to do it or find time to do so. right now im feeling she's not into that anymore, and that I'm kinda just forcing her to be that again by telling her i miss her and all .. and it's not doing any good so far.. she's not rejecting it, but her interest in that just doesnt seem to be there anymore.. Im hoping this is just a phase..
So yeah perhaps just try telling her you missed her being like that and perhaps she'll come around.. good luck my friend.