Is it normal that my girlfriend can't suck hard for too long?

Ok, here goes. I do well in punctuation and spelling and all that but I'm on my phone so I'm seeking forgiveness here. My girlfriend and I have been together and sexually active for six months and get tested regularly. We always try new and different things. She really likes to give me oral but after a while of sucking specifically on my pearl she says her bottom inner lip and where her tongue hits gets raw apparently from sucking. It's odd because I'm far from dry :). I also wonder if a factor of it is the time length of sucking. She can handle other items such as popsicles and sour candy. However, I think it's how long and how hard she's doing it. I'm actually hard to make cum so tops it's about 15 minutes if she sucks like that and 20 if for other things. So first I want to know is it normal and if someone can offer advice to help us or answer why it's happening. I'm really not interested in immature answers.

Is It Normal?
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  • Yes, believe it or not, after a while giving oral sex to a guy hurts, espically if hes hard,long, and thick around. The sucking motion hurts my cheeks, and trying to do it right, not hurting him puts more strain on our mouths, give her props, I can't even last that long, in fact I dont like it because of the pain! Good luck.

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  • Instead of only sucking, tell her to lick your pearl and around. also tell her to gently squeeze your balls with her hand while she licks/sucks the tip. you will enjoy and she wont be tired if she flips between these steps. i hope it works.

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  • Been there done that, It DOES hurt if the guy lasts that long.

    Try to ask her to switch between a hand and her mouth.

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    • To OP

      Try powersharting instead

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    • Yea. We alternate things a bit. Just the sucking tops me off :)

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    • It's a girl, I'm in a lesbian relationship sorry I wasn't clear.

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      • I diiid wonder why you called the tip of your penis a pearl xD

        But now I'm with you!
        Same thing would apply there! If anything it's easier to stimulate a girl without having to work too much with your mouth. (I'm bi so I have tried both)

        I'd try to start it of by gently kissing and nibbling around your clitoris for a while and then slowly add a finger to the equation and not give you stimulation there right away.
        After this foreplay I'm pretty sure that it would be easier for the both of you when she finally does suck.

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        • Yea foreplay sounds good. I wonder if I should foreplay a longtime and change it up...I'm a aries so I like variety lol.

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          • I also have a hard time orgasming quickly, or had until I learned what I wanted out of a session in bed and introduced teasing and the stress-releaving "You CAN'T cum until I say so"

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