Is it normal that my girlfriend can't let go of her ex?

Ok, this is my first story so please excuse me if i don't do this correctly, but i do need some help. Me and my girlfriend have been in a long distance relashonship for 2 [almost 3] months. Well, i met her through my step-brother and they used to date. He cheated on her alot, and i confessed all of his lies to her. Long story short eventually we ended up together. Now, she says she still wants to be friend with him and even though i don't like it, i choose to allow it. Everytime i go to my dad's house i always end up reading his text messages from her [i know it's wrong but i can't help myself] her and him always flirt with each other, and when i bring it up to her she denies it. They go online and webcam with eachother and i have no clue what else happens. It's been going on for awhile and i love her, but i don't like what's going on between them. What should i do?

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  • She ain't worth your time man. Fuck that, that's bull shit.

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  • Your girl and him are too comfortable with eachother and cannot be 'friends' immediately after breaking up. She isn't being fair to you and know she knows she can stomp all over you and still get what she wants. As perfect as she is, focus on her faults and get mad. Once you leave her you will forget how 'perfect' you she seemed to be.

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  • !?!? what guy above said+dump her

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  • You shouldn't have gone out with your brothers ex

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  • the fact that its long distance she should understand that you really have to work at being able to trust each other (even though in ANY relationship texting with an ex, esp flirty ones would raise some flags) you seem to be doing your part, but she isnt doing hers. Oh, and the way she reacted to you bringing it up shows a lack of respect and consioderation for your feelings.

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  • We got into a huge fight over it awhile back, and i made her choose between us and she kept telling me she chose me and deleted his number. But a couple days later she said she was gonna talk to him again, and i didn't feeling like fighting with her so i just said whatever. But she doesn't understand i make myself sick over worrying [sp?] over what they talk about, she just thinks i'm overreacting.

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  • I agree with soccer2. What they are both doing is not fair on you!

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  • I guess. But she's just so perfect, kinda hard ya know?

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  • Yeah well you should have dumped her along time ago. Or just never of went out with her.

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  • Dude! Once he has had access to your chick- he will always have access

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  • leaving her would be too easy...release your animal side and get revenge...I can give you a few tips that no one will get hurt from but leave a very lasting impresion...drop me a line

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  • somtins goin down i think you should dump her leave that bitch ~understander

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  • You need to talk to her about it and tell her how it is and if she refuses your wishes then leave her bc she's obviously hiding something

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  • Leave her.

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  • Give her an ultimatum. U or him. She needs to respect ur wishes

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