Is it normal that my girlfriend broke up with me for no reason?

To start off, I had this really good relationship going for 7 months. Just recently, we broke up because she said she doesn't feel the same way anymore for no particular reason at all. My question was "how can you just not like someone you've been dating after 7 months for no reason at all?" I keep asking her if it was my fault: if I did something or said something. She said no and that she just wanted to stop dating. I was extremely hurt by this because we were in a great relationship. I sometimes have moments in my room where I'll start balling my eyes out while thinking of memories and everything we once had. So two questions. Number one: Is it normal to just stop liking someone after 7 months after a strong relationship. Number two: Is it normal that I have random crying spells?

Is It Normal?
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  • Or you were a great guy, so she was giving you a shot. You probably just weren't "the one" for her. Don't worry about the reason. You'll just get upset more often. Haven't you dated someone and they were great and all, just not really that into them?

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  • There was a reason but it would probably hurt you so she kept it to herself because she loves you and in her mind she's protecting you.

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  • Same thing happened to me. I was devastated when she told me this. I loved this girl so much.Mostly I didn't do nothing to hurt her. I don't know what happened to the beautiful love of my life that I used to know.
    I mean it wasn't like that in highschool. I mean I don't like drama unless I have low self-esteem. I was on my way to work to do a morning to early evening shift and I told her that I wanted to go to six flags alone and she got mad.So I hung up on her because I don't want this on my mind at work.Then she ended things with me when I'm exhausted from working. I told her I would reschedule our date and she didn't want that. I mean I don't wanna be dealing with this bullshit after I come from work,I usually wanna relax and stuff.Im sorry that happened to you but if she dumped you with no valid reason don't take her back.u let her learn the hard way.It gets exhausting after a while.

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  • stop feeling sorry for your self go and have some fun get laid

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  • It's natural I think. you can't help it if you can't excite her anymore.. Let her go and find someone else dude.. And yes random crying spells are normal too. I remember I was so sad about my breakup that I used to cry while laughing. That's shitty thing to happen but remember that it'll pass.

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  • I know the feeling. I did that with my boyfriend after 4 months. it's not somthing we can control. it just happends. even if we don't want it to. that sucks for you tho i'm sorry /:

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  • my guess is that you got less interesting to her.

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  • That happened to me... The girl thing. I was going out with this amazing guy, put together by my best best best best bestiest buddy in the world. Well, we went out for 4 months, I started liking him less, like I didn't like him as much. I saw the quality in him as a friend and went "Eh forget it." then I broke up to him saying I don't feel the same way anymore, I think him more as a friend, he was really upset. I am still friends with him, but now he has a girlfriend again, and he's happy. My point is, if she's still friends with you, she just wants to be friends. If she abandons you... She's a bitch. Either way, you'll find somebody else.

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  • 1. She's a whore and want to be all men and girls2. Something is wrong she's protecting you!

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