Is it normal that my girlfriend avoids orgasms during sex?

36% Normal
5 Comments

Lol so im a 6'2 black guy and my girlfriend is a 5'3 Asian girl just to give you a visual lol. I have realized that having sex with her if fairly difficult not because of the tight fit, but because of her squirming away almost as if she is avoiding it. She loves sex with me and she always has orgasms but throughout the sex its almost like im chasing her around the bed being she is moving away so much. She says its not because it hurts but she cant explain why. I know its pleasurable because of the orgasms, vaginal convulsions, and shaking of the thighs. but Is the avoiding part normal?

Voting Results
36% Normal
Based on 14 votes (5 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • sugarbunny772
    12 years ago

    i think you should talk this through with her orelse ur relationship won't last,don't hide stuff from each other

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's either hurting her or she's faking orgasms.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • perceivemefreely7
    13 years ago

    That was my initial thought then I knew that couldn't be possible. 1. Because no woman can fake shaking like that. Only the bottom half of her body was shaking and then that was followed by a rush of excess vaginal secretions (which I loved Lol). 2. My girlfriend is way to brutally honest to fake it. Trust me she is blunt no holding back. So I doubt she is faking it and if so she is a damn good actress because that was amazing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i hate to say this but i think she mite b faking it

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • MssMurd3r
    13 years ago

    No. Something sounds strange. Maybe it does hurt her but she doesn't want to tell you because she's afraid that she will hurt your feelings. Do you ever try being on top? That way there isn't much room for her to squirm. Or maybe try karma sutra positions. Make sure you comfort her and assure her that you love her no matter what and she can tell you anything. I hope this helps. Good luck.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0