Is it normal that my girl said we can sleep but no sex

Hi,i met a girl two weeks ago in town,she gave me her whatsapp contacts ,so since then we text each other day and night,even while she is at work,so after 3 days of texting,she was stressed and it was night,she text me and say"am stressed i can't sleep ,and am crying cause everything i do i fail ,i need happyness ,and please help me what i can do ",so i comforted her by warm messages after 5mins she asked me ,"don't you love me",the time she asked me this question,i never expect that she will ask me,so i said "honestly i love you" and of which i was honest but iwas not in rush to tell her and not even on whatsapp, so she said"why you did not tell me ,because i do love you too "i told her iwas shy and not in rush to say it, so then we text until she felt good,she told me about her secrets and her ex man who use to cheat on her,and how she is paranoid about man, me too i let her know about mine,so since that night we started to exchange romentic text,more phone calls till today and she is staying 50km away from me, so we agreed that next week friday the 28th she is coming to visit me,so my problem is she said we won't have sex ,because she just met me and saw me once she want to know me better and then later sex but not now ,so is this ok ???to sleep with a girl the whole night without sex.?

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  • Well... since you told her you "love her honestly" you can wait until she's ready.

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  • I got bored with your post after the third sentence. Try using correct grammar complete with paragraphs and pronounciation to get and keep my attention next time round.

    "Please have an excellent day, Good bye!"

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  • @budde Lol nay,not ready for marriage

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  • Yeah, it's good to take your time.

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  • Of course it's OK.
    Why wouldn't it be?

    Take things slow, show her that you respect her & want more than just sex
    (if indeed you do)

    Maybe you two could have a cuddle or whatever but make sure she's comfortable with how things are progressing

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  • @Gspyder yeah exactly good shot she told me so,.like she's even paranoid

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  • Yeah, she sounds like a smart girl. She's been hurt before and wants to take things slow to keep it from happening again. If you two do love each other you can wait for the time to be right.

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  • That's a huge red flag bro. A girl that has to verbally lay that down to someone they JUST met... Yeah. I'd steer clear. Chances are she has scars and "morals" u don't wanna deal with

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  • Lol not ready for marriage .

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  • Get married you'll find out what thats all about

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  • Thanks @sexy

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  • lol lol..Aaah i can't perfect everything here ,its not like am writting exam ,where you going to mark my script..@sexysono

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  • Ok thanks alot for help

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