Is it normal that my gf wont let me go down on her
ive been with my girl for bout 5 years now but she is yet to let me go down on her. is it normal and what could i do to get her to allow me to???????????
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ive been with my girl for bout 5 years now but she is yet to let me go down on her. is it normal and what could i do to get her to allow me to???????????
Perhaps she is self-concious about her vaginal area, making her insecure about your opinion about it.
Or, perhaps she just doesn't like it, at all. Maybe she had bad experiences with it, it's all a possibility.
Have you tried talking about it with her?
Maybe tell her you think she looks fine down there, and you'd love to know how she'd taste (:
Goodluck, Alex.
It's normal. Women are taught from very early on that their 'ladyparts' are 'bad'.
Also, women are really empathetic, so the fact that *she* would find it disgusting to go down on another woman makes her think that it's *the act* that's disgusting. She's not reasoning it out properly. It's not dawning on her that men *do* like eating women out, even if *she*, as a woman, thinks it's gross.
Take a shower with her, and have her watch you brush your teeth really good first. It might help too if you get a pair of hair clippers (not a razor, because razoring pubes just causes problems) and let her trim her hair up (she'll feel "cleaner").
I have the *exact* same "image" issue with mah pussay, and this is what I do and it works out just fine.
I will tell you that if you try to sneak downstairs or just go for it without warning, it will feel exactly like rape to her (whether you mean it to or not), so that's not a really good idea. If you like her, you'll respect her.