BDSM only works in an environment of trust. As the "submissive", YOU have the right to set the limits, and she needs to stick within those limits.
Talk to her BEFORE you play next, and make sure she understands where the limits are. Set a "safe word", and make sure she understands that if you "call safe" it's not up for negotiation - she stops IMMEDIATELY and the problem (restraints too tight whatever) is fixed.
Also make sure she understands that if she gets "too carried away" again and does not respect your limits, you will be throwing her stupid ass out into the street.
IIN that my GF enjoys seeing me in pain?
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BDSM only works in an environment of trust. As the "submissive", YOU have the right to set the limits, and she needs to stick within those limits.
Talk to her BEFORE you play next, and make sure she understands where the limits are. Set a "safe word", and make sure she understands that if you "call safe" it's not up for negotiation - she stops IMMEDIATELY and the problem (restraints too tight whatever) is fixed.
Also make sure she understands that if she gets "too carried away" again and does not respect your limits, you will be throwing her stupid ass out into the street.