I was fortunate to have grown up at a time when there was plenty of 'free love' going around. I learned many valuable things from (mostly) more experienced older women.
For a young and / or sexually inexperienced female, a penis is an alien organ that can be somewhat uncomfortable, getting used to.
Your girlfriend should be using an effective means of contraception. There are other alternatives to 'the pill', but this might be the best alternative, just remind her every day. This should be discussed at a Sexual Health Clinic. In the meantime, be very, very careful where you ejaculate, AND with Pre-ejaculate. A pregnancy can and sometimes does occur without penetration, this is called a virgin birth, and can be very dangerous for a young female.
Many females do not enjoy giving oral sex to males, although many will, eventually, to please their male partners or out of simple curiosity, sometimes pretending to enjoy it. Some do enjoy it.
You are in a catch-22 situation. You are both sexually inexperienced, but wish to remain monogamous. Things that you might want to try: If you know a more experienced couple, you could speak with them openly and frankly about sex, or perhaps if they are comfortable with it, watch (my former neighbour would let her teenage daughters watch).
AFTER you are using an effective means of birth control, you might want to try to very gently, Bentley, rub your penis on the EXTERIOR of her vagina / pubic area. When she is ready, she will direct your penis inside. If and when this occurs, again, very gently, Bentley. Be very careful that an accidental penetration does not occur.
You might also wish to read and learn from experienced Sex Therapy Experts, such as Sue Johanson.
Is it normal that my gf doesnt want to do anything to my penis?
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I was fortunate to have grown up at a time when there was plenty of 'free love' going around. I learned many valuable things from (mostly) more experienced older women.
For a young and / or sexually inexperienced female, a penis is an alien organ that can be somewhat uncomfortable, getting used to.
Your girlfriend should be using an effective means of contraception. There are other alternatives to 'the pill', but this might be the best alternative, just remind her every day. This should be discussed at a Sexual Health Clinic. In the meantime, be very, very careful where you ejaculate, AND with Pre-ejaculate. A pregnancy can and sometimes does occur without penetration, this is called a virgin birth, and can be very dangerous for a young female.
Many females do not enjoy giving oral sex to males, although many will, eventually, to please their male partners or out of simple curiosity, sometimes pretending to enjoy it. Some do enjoy it.
You are in a catch-22 situation. You are both sexually inexperienced, but wish to remain monogamous. Things that you might want to try: If you know a more experienced couple, you could speak with them openly and frankly about sex, or perhaps if they are comfortable with it, watch (my former neighbour would let her teenage daughters watch).
AFTER you are using an effective means of birth control, you might want to try to very gently, Bentley, rub your penis on the EXTERIOR of her vagina / pubic area. When she is ready, she will direct your penis inside. If and when this occurs, again, very gently, Bentley. Be very careful that an accidental penetration does not occur.
You might also wish to read and learn from experienced Sex Therapy Experts, such as Sue Johanson.