Is it normal that my friensd is a heartless monster?

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One of my few friends (let's call him Josh) is a monster. I am serious about this.
We both have a horrfying urge to hurt people, kill them, ruin their lives. Generally make them feel bad. We fantasize about mass murder and ways to torture people.
I wanted to know other people's opinions on this. If anyone knows what's wrong with us.
*Yes, we were bullied and or abused when we were younger. Could this have to do with it?

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  • OCDC
    12 years ago | pl

    How come you say he is a monster, but you put 'WE both have a horrifying urge to hurt people' and 'WE fantasize about mass murder'?

    Can't say I've never wanted to kill someone, but if you were abused/bullied I think there must be some underlying issues you need to address!

    Just don't act on it, whatever you do!

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    • IBuyPotatosWithVoices
      12 years ago

      Yeah, I know. By saying we, it means we are 'in the same boat', so to speak. He sees a psychiatrist every so often, but They frighten me, so I keep away from them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The fact that you recognise this to be a negative thing and a bad thing makes me put my thoughts more to that you both want to look cool and don't actually feel this way. Especially when you say "What's wrong with us". If you felt this way you wouldn't think there is anything "wrong" with you but you obviously don't feel this way so you say "what's wrong with us" for some sort of attention seeking tactic.

    There are alot of people like you in this world and alot of them are on this site. This community isn't fooled easy.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Also, you acknowledge that your friend is a monster but mention both far more than you mention your friend, it just goes to show that you want the "glory" of looking like a murderer instead of your friend looking like one.
      You don't sound dangerous, you sound like you got bullied, you're pissed off with the bullies, and now you want to try redeem personal power by making yourself sound dangerous because you couldn't do it when you needed to.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    I've often wondered what makes people like this. is it nature, the person was just born this way? or nurture, a result of the person's environment/upbring/society?

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      The environment... everything what you are and do is caused by the people who are around you and your interactions with them!

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      • AngAnders112
        12 years ago

        I agree that environment does greatly affects who you are as a person. But i look at pedophiles for example and think part of it has to be that they were just born that way. How can environment persuade someone to want to have sex with kids?

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          Being abused by parents in you childhood could be a cause for being aggressive and/or wanna have sex with a child... I'm myself a zoo(phile) and could be that it was caused by my father who was beating me sometimes and prefering my sister... I guess thts also the reason why I get aggressive easily -.-

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    I know this is a slightly radical solution but, seeing as how there are two of you, why don't you torture and mutilate each other, and then at least no one else gets hurt?

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  • hairyfairy
    10 years ago

    I`d say that it was normal if youv`e been bullied, tofantasise about what you`d do to those who did the bullying, but not about killing & maiming just anyone. I was bullied as a teenager, & I still think how wonderful it would be if I had the opportunity for revenge.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Alot of people feel this way, it's figuring out if they actully feel this way or if they just want to look cool.

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  • madme
    12 years ago

    You have the RIGHT and RESPONSIBILITY to change or learn how to control and deal with those urges. Seek help and urge your friend to do so to. It is not your fault you were abused/bullied, but you are responsible for every action you make and you have to deal with the consequences of any action you do. Do you want to sit in prison for years and years and endure abuse in there? I hope not! Seek help...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Grow up!

    Actually my sister is a psychopath and I saw a TV programme that said the nerves from the front of her brain weren't connected to the back! In prisons they had the kids play pacman to connect these nerve endings so that they didn't reoffend. The desire for thrill means you either end up in prison or join law enforcement :o)

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    Go for it

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