Is it normal that my friends changed the way i look & think of myself

my friends always make fun of me, and when me and these 2 friends get together they get even more of a reason to make fun of me. they say their joking, but it really hurts... it makes me look in the mirror and think that the things that they said were true. before they started insulting me i thought i was beautiful, slim, and a wonderful, kind person. but now i look at myself, and think, why do i deserve to be alive? r they good friends? is it normal for them to do this to me?

Is It Normal?
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  • Tell'em to go fuck themselfs, you are a great person just the way you are. There "jokes" and oppinions are NOT needed nor wanted. If they were your friends then they would except you just the way you are and have nothing and i mean nothing bad to say about who you are.
    People like that make me sick and they are just hating on you. There jelouse. Your perfectly normal but they sure as hell aren't. Stand up and show em that your not to be messed with.. and tell them how they make you feel, then walk away. If they're your true friends they will follow and appoligize and never do it again. If those things dont get done, girl, stay awy cuz you deserve better.

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  • Run, don't walk away from these people. Tell them how they are making you feel then say goodbye. Life is full of enough drama, you don't need their crap either. But I know what you mean. I am also trying to not let other people define who I am.

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  • Stop being friends with them. No real friend would this to their fellow friend(s).
    What they are doing is unacceptable! Cut all ties with them and go find some real friends!

    Good Luck!

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  • Don't listen to them, theyre obviously not nice people or insecure about themselves. If you think you're beautiful that's all that matters.. Dont let others put you down. :)

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  • It's normal, but they're shitty friends.

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  • It's normal for you to respond to them in that way, but you should be stronger. If they talk bout you that way it's really not okay, you should definitely ditch them and don't worry about what others say! They should love you for you, and you should never try to change yourself for others...

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  • It sounds like theyre jealous of you.

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  • just ditch them :)

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  • Screw them and quit calling them friends! Find some other NICE people to be friends with. You could join a club or a sport :) but please don't think of yourself that way!!!! Try your absolute hardest to think of yourself the way you did before they turned into immature little b*tches.

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  • what did they say to you?
    if it was really mean and hurt you, you don't deserve friends like that. find better friends.

    and, having self-confidence is important, and you should never let words bring you down.

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  • Those are called FRENEMYS there jelous of you try not to let them see you sweat
    HATERATION

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  • Hmm. I was in the same situation. Then I left for college and my new group of friends do the same. I really want to see a specialist and find out why people are so stuck on putting me down, etc. I'm smart, good looking, but maybe I'm too energetic, or young looking, who knows. I have lost confidence. Its hard to meet new people now because I feel vulnerable and such. For some of us, I guess its normal.

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  • Yeah, what kind of "friends" are those? You deserve better!

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  • Hello. Toxic relationships. Been there done that.

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  • That arnt friends, they r bitches! U deserve better! Find new 'improved' friends!

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  • Dude ditch them they ain't worth your time.

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