ghosting people is usually a pretty shitty thing to do. but from your comments to other users in mind, he doesn't seem to be self-aware enough to realize that the reason people do this to him, is because of himself.
drop a truth-bomb on him about how he needs to look at himself for once, maybe recommend therapy if he isn't already seeing someone, say "sorry, but i can't handle this for my own health," and walk away.
also, really fucking weird that he's in his 30's and still doing this. as a 20-something with some debilitating mental disabilities and illnesses, using those isn't really an excuse either. i feel for the people who act like this for those reasons, but i'm not gonna be obligated to stick around them if it's just causing me hurt, as well.
IIN that my friend thinks that blocking/ghosting should be illegal?
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ghosting people is usually a pretty shitty thing to do. but from your comments to other users in mind, he doesn't seem to be self-aware enough to realize that the reason people do this to him, is because of himself.
drop a truth-bomb on him about how he needs to look at himself for once, maybe recommend therapy if he isn't already seeing someone, say "sorry, but i can't handle this for my own health," and walk away.
also, really fucking weird that he's in his 30's and still doing this. as a 20-something with some debilitating mental disabilities and illnesses, using those isn't really an excuse either. i feel for the people who act like this for those reasons, but i'm not gonna be obligated to stick around them if it's just causing me hurt, as well.
hope that makes sense?
wishing you luck!