It's funny cause people who cry about ghosting are usually the most clingy, toxic psychos who lack the introspective skills to realize it. Ghosting is a message in itself that the friendship is not mutual. Entitled bitches need to get over themselves
Yep. I really don't understand how these toxic people fail to realize that they're toxic. There's really no excuse for treating others badly and they have zero right to be upset when the people they treat badly ultimately end the friendship. XD
I doubt it. He's in his thirties and refuses to ever take responsibility for his actions. People have told him over and over not to do certain things, yet he does them anyway. XD
You don’t know what it’s like to have Asperger’s because I’m socially awkward and get ghosted all the time due to my condition. Calling someone a psycho for raising awareness about being ghosted is like the jock calling a nerd a loser.
Bruh, I have defining characteristics of Asperger's myself (just never been checked for it because idk how to and I try very hard to pass as normal. Most i've been diagnosed with is OCD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Dysthymia, all which you probably know are common comorbidities of ASD as well)
I've been ghosted, bullied, rejected, many times in my younger days. I took it as a learning experience. And nowadays I'm a loner. I have my own share of problems, which makes ghosting an Ideal way for me to deal with suffocators. Don't take it as an insult to yourself; otherwise, that insecurity is on you.
- Hes clingy. Anyone that makes the mistake of giving him their number will wind up having their phone blown up all the time.
-He never asks before borrowing shit. He doesn't seem to think it's stealing.
-He comes over without asking if it's a good time. If no one is home, he'll wait outside their houses in his car honking his damn horn nonstop and pissing off the neighbors. It could be nighttime and he'd do it. He also fucked up my friend's lawn by parking his car on the lawn and not the damn driveway and he refused to pay to fix it.
-If he doesn't like someone's hair or look, he'll just focus and obsess over it and make fun of it for the entire day if they refuse to change their look.
-He's rubbed family deaths in people's faces. Like, they're mourning, they don't need that shit.
- He also gets jealous when anyone gets in a relationship and has even tried to come between them.
-He complains a LOT. Like, every day we gotta hear him bitch about how straight women take away all the good guys and leave him single. If it's not that, he's complaining about Republicans, Hispanics, or the past. He's well aware I'm Hispanic, btw.
-Also, if someone is going through a rough patch, if he's not rubbing that in their face, he's trying to one up their misery by whining about shit that happened to him long ago that doesn't even matter.
I could go on and on with the list, but I'll end it here. This guy was told multiple times not to do these things, yet he refuses to change. His anxiety and depression really aren't a valid excuse for this. Lol
Oh, dear God! That guy sounds like a real nightmare! I don't know if he has Asperger's, or some sort of personality disorder, or what, but it's completely not an excuse. What that dude needs is to be medicated, and spend a couple of months in a psychiatric ward! He is hella messed up, and he couldn't pay me enough to feel sorry for his crazy ass. I hope he leaves you alone! Honestly, he's lucky people haven't called the cops on him, or maybe they already have done so. He's also lucky if he hasn't had his ass whooped.
IIN that my friend thinks that blocking/ghosting should be illegal?
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It's funny cause people who cry about ghosting are usually the most clingy, toxic psychos who lack the introspective skills to realize it. Ghosting is a message in itself that the friendship is not mutual. Entitled bitches need to get over themselves
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Yep. I really don't understand how these toxic people fail to realize that they're toxic. There's really no excuse for treating others badly and they have zero right to be upset when the people they treat badly ultimately end the friendship. XD
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A lot of people lack insight. Hopefully they will someday come to their senses.
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I doubt it. He's in his thirties and refuses to ever take responsibility for his actions. People have told him over and over not to do certain things, yet he does them anyway. XD
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Yep, that's sad, but you gotta do what you gotta do to take care of yourself. I trust your judgment.
I will admit though that this has kinda peaked my interest. What kinda stuff does it do?
You don’t know what it’s like to have Asperger’s because I’m socially awkward and get ghosted all the time due to my condition. Calling someone a psycho for raising awareness about being ghosted is like the jock calling a nerd a loser.
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Bruh, I have defining characteristics of Asperger's myself (just never been checked for it because idk how to and I try very hard to pass as normal. Most i've been diagnosed with is OCD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Dysthymia, all which you probably know are common comorbidities of ASD as well)
I've been ghosted, bullied, rejected, many times in my younger days. I took it as a learning experience. And nowadays I'm a loner. I have my own share of problems, which makes ghosting an Ideal way for me to deal with suffocators. Don't take it as an insult to yourself; otherwise, that insecurity is on you.
I feel for you. 💛
Lemme tell you about my friend:
- Hes clingy. Anyone that makes the mistake of giving him their number will wind up having their phone blown up all the time.
-He never asks before borrowing shit. He doesn't seem to think it's stealing.
-He comes over without asking if it's a good time. If no one is home, he'll wait outside their houses in his car honking his damn horn nonstop and pissing off the neighbors. It could be nighttime and he'd do it. He also fucked up my friend's lawn by parking his car on the lawn and not the damn driveway and he refused to pay to fix it.
-If he doesn't like someone's hair or look, he'll just focus and obsess over it and make fun of it for the entire day if they refuse to change their look.
-He's rubbed family deaths in people's faces. Like, they're mourning, they don't need that shit.
- He also gets jealous when anyone gets in a relationship and has even tried to come between them.
-He complains a LOT. Like, every day we gotta hear him bitch about how straight women take away all the good guys and leave him single. If it's not that, he's complaining about Republicans, Hispanics, or the past. He's well aware I'm Hispanic, btw.
-Also, if someone is going through a rough patch, if he's not rubbing that in their face, he's trying to one up their misery by whining about shit that happened to him long ago that doesn't even matter.
I could go on and on with the list, but I'll end it here. This guy was told multiple times not to do these things, yet he refuses to change. His anxiety and depression really aren't a valid excuse for this. Lol
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Oh, dear God! That guy sounds like a real nightmare! I don't know if he has Asperger's, or some sort of personality disorder, or what, but it's completely not an excuse. What that dude needs is to be medicated, and spend a couple of months in a psychiatric ward! He is hella messed up, and he couldn't pay me enough to feel sorry for his crazy ass. I hope he leaves you alone! Honestly, he's lucky people haven't called the cops on him, or maybe they already have done so. He's also lucky if he hasn't had his ass whooped.
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Thank you.
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I've stopped talking to him. So far, he hasn't bothered me in the last two days. I'm going to make sure it stays that way. Lol
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That’s a metric fuck-ton of crazy right there. Serious question, why are you still friends with him?
From your point of view.