i'm not making these assumptions out of nothing. she's always making me pay for other things, like when we're out and she only comes if i bring my car. if i say i want to take a cab/my car is in the shop/i want to take a bus/walk she won't come. and when she does, she never offers to pay gas, even if i say, "we need to go home now because i can only afford X amount of gas" she won't take the hint. she's kind of gotten comfortable/"used to" going out with me with my car and it looks like now she "won't accept any less". should i have started differently? like laid out the rules from the beginning? because i certainly feel like i've started on the wrong foot! i don't know the common "decency rules", so just do whatever. but now i think maybe i'm giving her the wrong idea.
I believe in this life we don't get what we deserve - we get what we settle for!
Unless you have absolutely no-one else in the world to go out with, you don't need this taker. Dead right she's not taking the hints - coz it doesn't suit her to understand what you mean!!! This girl is not your friend and is using you to such an extreme that it is hurting / demeaning you. Somehow you are putting yourself below her as if she is more valuable or worthy than you, yet you are the one that has the car.
If you were of no use to her she would dump you!!
Pleeeaasseee learn from this relationship and realise she is no good for you. You need to appreciate yourself and realise that it's her loss if she loses you. I'd encourage you not to settle for this rotten treatment of you - or some guy is going to treat you like real crap and you'll accept it coz that's what you've learned to do.
It can be hard to confront people like her so let her call you and don't run after her friendship. You sound like anyone would appreciate a friend like you but she wants to be treated like a princess! Believe it or not while she has these principles she will probably meet a guy who will treat her that way which is what we'd all want for you.... so get arrogant, believe you are gorgeous, wonderful, witty, etc and she should feel privileged to be invited into your car!!
Bet she'd claim compensation off you if you had an accident!
Bin her sorry @ss!!!
IIN that my friend now expects me to pay for her after i paid for it?
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i'm not making these assumptions out of nothing. she's always making me pay for other things, like when we're out and she only comes if i bring my car. if i say i want to take a cab/my car is in the shop/i want to take a bus/walk she won't come. and when she does, she never offers to pay gas, even if i say, "we need to go home now because i can only afford X amount of gas" she won't take the hint. she's kind of gotten comfortable/"used to" going out with me with my car and it looks like now she "won't accept any less". should i have started differently? like laid out the rules from the beginning? because i certainly feel like i've started on the wrong foot! i don't know the common "decency rules", so just do whatever. but now i think maybe i'm giving her the wrong idea.
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I believe in this life we don't get what we deserve - we get what we settle for!
Unless you have absolutely no-one else in the world to go out with, you don't need this taker. Dead right she's not taking the hints - coz it doesn't suit her to understand what you mean!!! This girl is not your friend and is using you to such an extreme that it is hurting / demeaning you. Somehow you are putting yourself below her as if she is more valuable or worthy than you, yet you are the one that has the car.
If you were of no use to her she would dump you!!
Pleeeaasseee learn from this relationship and realise she is no good for you. You need to appreciate yourself and realise that it's her loss if she loses you. I'd encourage you not to settle for this rotten treatment of you - or some guy is going to treat you like real crap and you'll accept it coz that's what you've learned to do.
It can be hard to confront people like her so let her call you and don't run after her friendship. You sound like anyone would appreciate a friend like you but she wants to be treated like a princess! Believe it or not while she has these principles she will probably meet a guy who will treat her that way which is what we'd all want for you.... so get arrogant, believe you are gorgeous, wonderful, witty, etc and she should feel privileged to be invited into your car!!
Bet she'd claim compensation off you if you had an accident!
Bin her sorry @ss!!!
She makes you pay for everything when you're out shopping and doesn't even offer to pay for parking or a part of parking? That's too much.