Is it normal that my friend is in love with me and i pretend i don't know?

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i'm in a monogamous relationship but have a best male friend who I already know secretly has a thing for me but I play dumb like I don't know because I value our friendship as it is. I would never cheat on my boyfriend but sometimes I worry just having a guy in arms reach that's in love with me is just as bad. Is it normal to just ignore someone's crush on you because you'd rather be friends and just hope those feelings fade?

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Based on 14 votes (11 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Be careful.

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  • _ItsScience
    6 years ago

    That's certainly an awkward situation, but I think you oughta let 'em down easy and introduce him to someone more compatible and available.

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    • SmokeEverything
      6 years ago

      Really, you should just hook him up with one of your friends.

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      • _ItsScience
        6 years ago

        I would, if I had friends. You got any?

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        • SmokeEverything
          6 years ago

          You could try a threesome. It's possible to be romantically involved with more than one person. Then again, if hes not going to make a move or anything you could just keep ignoring it.

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          • _ItsScience
            6 years ago

            An edgy move, but it could work.

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  • AbnormalxDoom
    6 years ago

    It's normal, but I definitely think you should talk with him about it, let him know his boundaries, and where you stand on the situation.

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