Don't talk to the husband; talk to your classmate. Making the wrong move could ruin a marriage. She probably gets something from the stud, or her relationship with him, that is absent from her marriage (feeling attractive; witty flirtation). It does not mean she does not love her husband. Tell her you're worried about your friend (her husband) getting hurt. Alert her that her flirtations could have unintended consequences, like word getting back to her hubby, or her own reputation getting sullied.
I myself have been flirtatious with attached women, knowing full well that there was no chance of me getting between them and their partners. I also know that my attention made them feel good about themselves.
IIN that my friend bothers me with her behavior?
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Don't talk to the husband; talk to your classmate. Making the wrong move could ruin a marriage. She probably gets something from the stud, or her relationship with him, that is absent from her marriage (feeling attractive; witty flirtation). It does not mean she does not love her husband. Tell her you're worried about your friend (her husband) getting hurt. Alert her that her flirtations could have unintended consequences, like word getting back to her hubby, or her own reputation getting sullied.
I myself have been flirtatious with attached women, knowing full well that there was no chance of me getting between them and their partners. I also know that my attention made them feel good about themselves.