I don't think that you are wrong. It is frustrating to see someone blatantly break their commitments to others without a care for who sees. If their marriage is monogamous, then she is being extremely disrespectful by being so blatantly unfaithful and that is a very distasteful trait.
However, I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. If you know her husband and you two are friends, then I'd let him know about my observations, but if I don't know them and I don't know their situation (for all you know, they may not be monogamous, they may be swingers, he may derive pleasure from her unfaithfulness), then don't waste any energy being upset.
I know him very well, and he thinks he's the luckiest guy in the world, I can empathize his feelings because he said if I could create or make a perfect woman, it would be her. He's never going to stop loving her, and this guy who I don't blame, it's not his fault every girl thinks he's the hottest thing around, is stealing her slowly everyday and you can just see it in her smile and eyes she really really likes this other guy.
If he is a friend of yours, I'd let him know that this is what she is doing, regardless of how he feels for her, he needs to know. You are his friend, and if I were in your shoes and saw this cancer killing his relationship, I would let him know before it spread to fast too be cured.
But that's just me. There really isn't a right way to interfere with others' business =/
IIN that my friend bothers me with her behavior?
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I don't think that you are wrong. It is frustrating to see someone blatantly break their commitments to others without a care for who sees. If their marriage is monogamous, then she is being extremely disrespectful by being so blatantly unfaithful and that is a very distasteful trait.
However, I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. If you know her husband and you two are friends, then I'd let him know about my observations, but if I don't know them and I don't know their situation (for all you know, they may not be monogamous, they may be swingers, he may derive pleasure from her unfaithfulness), then don't waste any energy being upset.
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I know him very well, and he thinks he's the luckiest guy in the world, I can empathize his feelings because he said if I could create or make a perfect woman, it would be her. He's never going to stop loving her, and this guy who I don't blame, it's not his fault every girl thinks he's the hottest thing around, is stealing her slowly everyday and you can just see it in her smile and eyes she really really likes this other guy.
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If he is a friend of yours, I'd let him know that this is what she is doing, regardless of how he feels for her, he needs to know. You are his friend, and if I were in your shoes and saw this cancer killing his relationship, I would let him know before it spread to fast too be cured.
But that's just me. There really isn't a right way to interfere with others' business =/