Is it normal that my fiance stopped wanting

well its time to talk to him and make him talk to you. if he truly cared about your relationship then he would want to fix this. maybe its time to kick up a stink about it. if my husband didnt want to discuss our relationship and just wanted to play the xbox then i would destroy the xbox right in front of him. i am not saying for you to do this because i dont know you or your partner and i dont know how he would react but i think its time for him to wake up to this.

I don't have time to go to the gym at all. O don't know what he actually thinks now because he hasn't said anything about it.

are you comfortable within yourself? if your body has changed and you are not comfortable with it then maybe start going to the gym to tighten up those places. that should help your self esteem too and if he doesnt find you hot after that then i dont know what else to say or advise.

Ohh he will he'll probably get pissed because i'm interupting his game, like with mos men if you walk in front of them butt naked they'd drop everything and just want it. Him no, he asks where the hell is my towel or tell me to get dressed. And like lately it's just lowering my self asteam more and more, and just having a baby it's already low as is because of the change from the pregnancy and i've talked about it to him before and he just forgets or doesn't pay attention.

try giving him a bj while he is playing ps3. if he turns you away then, that is when you have problems!

Before i never initiated sex because the few times i did he would just shut me down, it's only recently that i've been trying and like it's even all the time it's been after 3 to 4 days apart that i'll try.
Yes it's our first child, and like i try to still be his lover and put some effort into it while being a mother too. Like i'd understand if it was because he was worried the baby would wake up in the middle of it, but i'll try after i put the baby to bed for the night and he wont wake up till 5 or 6 in the morning, or even when my parents have him for the day. But even when baby is gone he'd rather play ps3 games instead.

maybe he feels pressured into having sex and he did say that he feels like its all about sex now. stop initiating it and let him take the reins. i can understand because i have a higher sex drive than my husband and more i push, the less he wants it. but sometimes i cant wait so i just rape him hahaha

Your first baby, I'm guessing? Men often have an extremely difficult time making the perceptual shift from what you were (his lover) to what you are (the mother of his child).

The truth, of course, is that you should be both of those things, but that's perhaps not how he's got it in his head. The key is communication as you're going to be scuppered without it. Good luck.