Is it normal that my female friends...?

I am a girl. Is it werid that my female friends sexual harass me more than guys. I sware my female classmates do werid sh** to me sometimes. Once I was hanging out with my friends in the bathroom, one of them wanted me to pee at the same time as them in the same stall. There have also been other times when they smack me on the a** or ask me me to take my shirt off and dance for them. It all started when a woman classmate of mine asked me out everytime I said no. Later she asked to marry her still said no. She called me a homophobe. Women(around my age) will see me grinding up on the wall and say(& I quote) "I wish I was that wall." I feel uncomfortable and I do not know whether or it is normal for girls to do this. The thing is I do not know whether what they're doing is normal or not and it is always girls never guys not even ugly ones. I mean I know some girls dance with each other and make out if drunk,but I fear that I might be the only strait girl in this school that isn't attracted to me. Don't get me wrong it's nice to have gay,bi,or lesbian friends. But not if they're attracted to you unless it's a bisexual dude. I just do not like girls. So is it normal for girl classmates/pals to act this way?

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  • Y r u grinding up against walls in the 1st place??

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    • finally someone said it!

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  • Why the hell are you grinding on walls?

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  • I don't care, it must look nice to see her grinding on the wall, sorry, I couldn't handle myself.

    PS If you want them to leave you alone, just do what a phsycologist sometimes says, reverse phsycology

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  • They are taking the piss out otta you, find some new friends

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  • Sounds like you live in an area that's full of horny lesbians who have little to no concept of boundaries and that is scant on men... You should try to Instil still boundaries. Let them know that you feel bothered by their harassing behaviour and that you are no longer going to put up with it. Perhaps, changing your attire might help? How do you dress? If you know that you live in an area with lesbians that are giving you unwanted attention, why then would you act like a slag and personal with a wall in public? It sounds like you are causing the majority of your problems. If a female asks you out, reply with a polite "No, thank you." If she is persistent and asks why, tell her that you are already seeing someone else. If it comes down to it, you may have to lie and make up someone. Say that this someone is from another country, etc.

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    • This is victim blaming. Harassment is NEVER the fault of the victim.

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      • Sorry. I am not sure if that even occurred to me at the time. I am certainly not for victim shaming, it goes against my beliefs.

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  • Maybe in college you will meet better friends. They are being a holes if they know u r straight and continue pursuing u! Had 2 gay guys who acted like that to me before... ANNOYING AS &%($ when they do it... DEMAND THEY STOP, get the school involved if they refuse to stop!

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  • Set some ground rules with them, and if they aren't followed, get new friends. You're probably better off with no friends than friends like that. Also what the frak compelled you to grind against a wall? Was the wall really hot? Are you wallsexual? So confused.

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  • focus on your present, work, go to school, force yourself to have activities, go out , have fun. Only with time you'll realize you no longer think about those memories.

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  • Well it's normal for chicks to do this but only to a certain point, this sounds like harassment, it's too extensive.

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  • Yes it is normal, just try it, I am abisexual and I have had some pretty crazy sex with 12 of the girls thatwent ro my school. It is an amazing experience.

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  • They're going a little too far. Tell them to back off, or find yourself some new friends.

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  • teasing you, sounds like fun, tease them back

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  • This was written by a guy

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  • Lol, grinding on walls? I think I missed something

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  • Again, grinding on walls???

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  • that is a bit too much indeed.

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  • they are just playing i harass my friends all the time just for fun but im not really atracted
    both guys and girls i just love their expression

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  • i know what your going through the same happened to me and im a guy, some guys in my school used to blow kisses and try to touch me and do really gay shit ive gone through the same as you and worse this guy used to do things like stroke my hand when i wasn looking at him, stand way to close behind me (almost pressing up against me) and he used to bend over and try to press his ass against me, just trying to tell you your not the only one and are not experiencing the worst and your not a homophobe

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  • Thats a bit too far, i do alot of stuff wit my friends, but not pee with them or dance with my shirt off for them. they crushin on you those two things r not normal

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    • Yeah, the whole wanting to pee with you thing is obviously a sign that they are crushing on you, I've experienced it a lot. If they try to suggest it again just say that you're not interested and never talk to them again.

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  • ok girls tend to be very flirty and shit.....my friends and i slap each others asses too.....but it's not like we're lesbians or bi....it's just a joke....something we do. We go to dances and grind on each other but it's not serious it's just friends. I am straight, and have tons of lezb friends and gay friends. I'm alright with it ass ong as they don't touch me or try anything with me. I mean my friends and i will run up to each other and hug each other with one leg wrapped around the other person....but I think you should tell them to stop if you're uncomfortable...they cant force you to dance shirtless for you or make you do anything you dont want to. It is harassment so tell them to stop and if it continues stop being friends with them or tell someone

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  • this happens to me too. but i dont see it as a problem. i asked my friend (f) to do a massage to me, she started concentrating on my *ss cheeks.of saw a wierd look in her face and sad "thats enough, thnx". another girl keeps on having dreams with me. after the third dream i told her that its ok to dream everything but dont tell me any of your dreams anymore.
    just take those comments for "jokes" and smile.

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  • The whole pee in the same stall with me I personally don't think is normal. Lol. But, that smacking on the a** is. Maybe you should just set some boundries? That's what I would do.

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  • i'm wondering the same thing as kellstar and iamalycat...very bizarre

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  • this IS sexual harassment if it makes you feel uncomfortable. It may not even be that they are all attracted to you, but they are dominating you with their behavior.
    You shouldn't let them push you around like that.

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