Is it normal that my female best friend and i act like we are together

We have been best friends for over a year, we are in high school. The entire time we have been friends, people have made little jokes about us liking each-other, but more recently, people have genuinely thought we are going out. We spend a lot of time together and alone too. Sometime we just sit by ourselves and I hold her.

Like I can see that in many ways there isn't much difference to how we are and how some couples in high school are. But the truth is I care about her so so much, and I know she cares about me. We both say that we love each-other all the time, we hug lots and really, are probably closer than any couple (except for physical stuff like kissing / sex) in our school.

A while back I almost got a girlfriend; the girl liked me and everything, but then I changed my mind when i realised that I actually preferred spending time with my best friend, and I almost felt like I was betraying her. I would've felt bad if I'd gone out with this other girl, cos the whole time I would've known it wasn't completely truthful.

Our closest friends all think that after school we will end up together. And truth be told I would be happy if that happened, because I never want to loose her. Never. The only way I can see that I won't loose her is that I am with her like that.

I trust her with everything, and she trusts me with everything.

Is this a normal situation for us to be in?

Is It Normal?
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  • OMG EXACT SAME STORY AS MEEE!!

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  • eventually you both will grow up.

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  • So why arent you with her? Sounds like you are so sweet. Id try to pursue her, and if you guys dont get together, then its time for some distance or youll never be able to have any other meaningful relationships. Make or break time, if you get what I mean.

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  • This is not healthy. I know from experiance. Someday she might fall for someone and you'll hate her because you won't be as 'close' to her anymore. I feel bad for you though. Either be in a relationship eith her or get out and open yourself for a relationship.

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  • awwww .... how cute :) please i beg you ... ask her out, get commited and marry her otherwise i will :p hurry up my friend !!!

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  • AW! It's meeee! <3 <3 I would soo be happy to be with you when we're out of school (:

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  • Exactly the same story except I'm the girl! But we kissed once ;) I reckon you'll either be best friends forever, a strong couple or even friends with benefits! Only time will tell eh?

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  • Awww this is the sweetest thing ever to care so much about a girl I really hope she nos and u end up together

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  • Exact situation I'm in!

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  • Sounds like love to me. Not normal to be that close, and not in love.

    Not that it's weird or anything - just not "normal."

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  • LMAO OMG I THOUGHT YOU WERE A GIRL AT FIRST and where LESBO WITH HER HAHaaaahaha
    But anyways dude take it a step further,

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  • R y a dude?????:S

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  • Good luck! Some of the strongest relationships begin as great friendships.

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  • Aww this is sweet
    But who knows maybe when u guys r an actual couple, there will be jealousy and stuff like that and that will ruin ur friendship

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