Is it normal that my father treats me like this ?

My dad is very abusive both physically and verbally.
He spits at me, calls me a whore (and other names), hits me, punches me, pushes me, flips tables.. He even broke my mom's arm once and hit her when she was pregnant for saying that she liked a singer that he disliked.
I plan to go to the police but my mom got angry and told me I am exaggerating. Am I ?

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Based on 39 votes (6 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Youngvictoria

    That is not
    Okay behavior and you should go to tbe police. If you are in the USA then what will happen is CPS will get a call and will get involved so that basically things will be out of your control at that point. My dad used to hit me and a friend at school got scared when she saw my bruises and told the school administration. CPS was called as is protocol and I was actually held captive at school until late that night being watched by a teacher because they had to investigate if my home was safe to return to (even with my mom there too). Be prepared for shit to hit the fan but if he's really hurting you and your mom you need to get that help

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  • 3some4fun

    Come to butthead

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  • IcecreamDogs

    Your mother loves him, sadly. Call for help. Any adult that tells you "Don't tell other trusted adults this" cannot be trusted. Get some help. Although the police can't help with everything, they certainly can help in your situation. CPS got your ass covered.

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  • babyblue_

    report his ass!!! that aint right!

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  • randypete

    go to the police

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  • Handyman

    Plan on where to go, but leave him before he gets totally out of mind.

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  • Firsttaste

    Get yourself and mother as far away as possible, There are plenty of places that you can and seak help and comfort,Your Father Is Not A Man. A real man would never put his hands on a female. It will never get better for you or mom.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg

    don't worrie about a place to live go to the cops they'll figure out where to put you they won't throw your ass out on the streets they have a vicims compensation program

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  • bfus

    Call the police. Whoever voted yes either has shitty hand-eye coordination skills or is fucked up

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  • nikkiclaire

    Go to the police but make sure you have somewhere to live first.

    My dad was like this and one day he snapped when he was drunk. Needless to say I haven't seen or talked to him since. Your dad WILL escalate.

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  • S12207

    Seriously that is a horrible situation for you both. I'm worried if you go to the cops and your mom is frightened or whatever and doesn't want to press charges, you will be in the house with him after he knows you went to the cops. Can you stay somewhere else? Be careful please! She probably is so twisted in the head when it comes to him from all the years of abuse she probably feels she's deserves it, he will change, or it is her fault, I'm worried she will resent you for it and you're stuck with both of them in the house after. Try to go somewhere else seriously!

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  • Bubblebutt94

    Na. Go to the police. Yo daddy tripping.

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  • JonathanOo

    That's not exaggerating. Its downplaying horrific behavior. Your father should NOT get away with it. Seek help if you can

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  • impala67

    You need to call the police immediately. He could go to prison for that sh*t.

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