Really difficult situation but it sounds like you've handled it very maturely. Any update? Have you told your mum? Sorry to say since he is your father but wow, what a douchebag. Correct me if I'm wrong but to me it sounds like he initially got her drunk because she wouldn't have had sex with him otherwise then took naked pictures of her to use as bait (or just wank material) in future. That's messed up. You should lose your virginity because you trust that person, not because they manipulated you into it. I dunno, if I were you I think I would encourage her to tell the organisation (perhaps not what happened exactly, maybe just that she's receiving advances from your father. Although I don't know how this will affect your future applications for student exchanges) so she can get a new host family. You can still see her, be her friend and look out for her whenever she's around. I'd also get your father's laptop and delete the naked pictures. Save a copy if you want to tell your mum because you'll need proof but make sure he no longer has a copy of them. As for telling your mum, you know the dynamics of your family so ultimately only you could make that decision. I'm just sorry you were dragged into this mess.
Is it normal that my father took the exchange students virginity?
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Really difficult situation but it sounds like you've handled it very maturely. Any update? Have you told your mum? Sorry to say since he is your father but wow, what a douchebag. Correct me if I'm wrong but to me it sounds like he initially got her drunk because she wouldn't have had sex with him otherwise then took naked pictures of her to use as bait (or just wank material) in future. That's messed up. You should lose your virginity because you trust that person, not because they manipulated you into it. I dunno, if I were you I think I would encourage her to tell the organisation (perhaps not what happened exactly, maybe just that she's receiving advances from your father. Although I don't know how this will affect your future applications for student exchanges) so she can get a new host family. You can still see her, be her friend and look out for her whenever she's around. I'd also get your father's laptop and delete the naked pictures. Save a copy if you want to tell your mum because you'll need proof but make sure he no longer has a copy of them. As for telling your mum, you know the dynamics of your family so ultimately only you could make that decision. I'm just sorry you were dragged into this mess.