Sorry darlin, that's the price women pay when they speak out about predators .... ignore these fuckwits, by attacking you they're supporting him, just like most of the rest of the world. If they think it's normal for an older man to ask a young female relative about her sex life when she doesn't want to talk about it, they are NOT normal.
It's great that your Dad spoke to him after your response had no effect but typical that you, the woman, are being blamed and not the uncle or your dad.
It would be good if you could learn other responses to creeps like your uncle: for example, just stare at him and say nothing until HE feels uncomfortable or just walk away without saying anything. The fact that he persisted after you said you were uncomfortable indicates to me that he was getting off on your discomfort.
Also, maybe you could shut these stupid relatives up by asking them intrusive questions, not necessarily about sex, maybe about their bank accounts or something else private, and see how they like it.
IIN that my family reacted this way?
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Sorry darlin, that's the price women pay when they speak out about predators .... ignore these fuckwits, by attacking you they're supporting him, just like most of the rest of the world. If they think it's normal for an older man to ask a young female relative about her sex life when she doesn't want to talk about it, they are NOT normal.
It's great that your Dad spoke to him after your response had no effect but typical that you, the woman, are being blamed and not the uncle or your dad.
It would be good if you could learn other responses to creeps like your uncle: for example, just stare at him and say nothing until HE feels uncomfortable or just walk away without saying anything. The fact that he persisted after you said you were uncomfortable indicates to me that he was getting off on your discomfort.
Also, maybe you could shut these stupid relatives up by asking them intrusive questions, not necessarily about sex, maybe about their bank accounts or something else private, and see how they like it.