I have found someone else, who coincidentally dated her before for 2 weeks. When she found out she called him and asked him to hang out with her and if she could spend the night but he kept ignoring her and she gave up after a month. I don't know why she sees me as a threat because I don't try to talk to my ex, he's tried talking to me maybe twice but I just tell him to go away. I wish I could get over this situation but its really annoying and I felt like venting about it I suppose.
Kinda funny, I was even gonna suggest that you date someone she dated as a means to get "even" but that would of caused more drama so I left it out, thinking that she would in turn try to take him from you to (which it appears she did try). She sees you as a threat not because you do or dont talk to your ex but maybe he still talks about you? This girl is obviously so consumed by jealousy of you. It sounds like she's using psychological projection as a defense mechanism and has certain insecurities about her looks and/or personality that are trigger by thoughts of you, when she calls you ugly it means she feels your more desirable than her and you make HER feel ugly, even if these are not your intentions, so she "projects" these feelings on to you by calling you ugly.
Is it normal that my ex boyfriend's wife stalks me?
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I have found someone else, who coincidentally dated her before for 2 weeks. When she found out she called him and asked him to hang out with her and if she could spend the night but he kept ignoring her and she gave up after a month. I don't know why she sees me as a threat because I don't try to talk to my ex, he's tried talking to me maybe twice but I just tell him to go away. I wish I could get over this situation but its really annoying and I felt like venting about it I suppose.
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Kinda funny, I was even gonna suggest that you date someone she dated as a means to get "even" but that would of caused more drama so I left it out, thinking that she would in turn try to take him from you to (which it appears she did try). She sees you as a threat not because you do or dont talk to your ex but maybe he still talks about you? This girl is obviously so consumed by jealousy of you. It sounds like she's using psychological projection as a defense mechanism and has certain insecurities about her looks and/or personality that are trigger by thoughts of you, when she calls you ugly it means she feels your more desirable than her and you make HER feel ugly, even if these are not your intentions, so she "projects" these feelings on to you by calling you ugly.