My daughter is 9. She always tells me at the last minute that she has to do a speech or project. She panics and sounds very similar to you. I'm sorry to say, but I do her speeches for her when she hasn't done them and they have needed to be in the next day... Same with her 'build an indigenous home' project. But I do them because I never wanted her to get an F or something for not doing it. She is always leaving things until the last minute and that is not my fault. I just always want to give her the best. Maybe that's what your dad wA trying to do??? Did you not want to do your homework? When you say, you want things to be perfect or just don't think it is worth doing? Were you like that as a kid? Or did your dad want your work to be perfect? I've now gotten to the point where I can't be bothered, shy should I do her work for her, she doesn't care if it is done or not... And never appreciated how hard I worked to help her get good grades. So if she can't tell me she needs to do it earlier than the day before, she can suffer the consequences!!! I do my best... Put yourself in your dad's shoes... Would you do or help your kids, if or when you have any? I hope you sort this out:) and hope I have helped?
I was kind of going to say this but (Super) already said most of what I was going to say. I am not a parent but I remember being in similar situations and others in these type of situations. I don't think your dad is trying to do it for you. I think he is trying to help and just ends up doing most of the work. I do not think he is to blame for your low self esteem either. If you dont bother doing your own work that's your own stupidity. The emotional problems have nothing to do with "Daddy" doing your homework. You just want someone to blame for all your problems. So to the OP get the fuck over yourself and take responsibility for your own issues.
IIN that my Dad used to do my homework for me when I was in school?
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My daughter is 9. She always tells me at the last minute that she has to do a speech or project. She panics and sounds very similar to you. I'm sorry to say, but I do her speeches for her when she hasn't done them and they have needed to be in the next day... Same with her 'build an indigenous home' project. But I do them because I never wanted her to get an F or something for not doing it. She is always leaving things until the last minute and that is not my fault. I just always want to give her the best. Maybe that's what your dad wA trying to do??? Did you not want to do your homework? When you say, you want things to be perfect or just don't think it is worth doing? Were you like that as a kid? Or did your dad want your work to be perfect? I've now gotten to the point where I can't be bothered, shy should I do her work for her, she doesn't care if it is done or not... And never appreciated how hard I worked to help her get good grades. So if she can't tell me she needs to do it earlier than the day before, she can suffer the consequences!!! I do my best... Put yourself in your dad's shoes... Would you do or help your kids, if or when you have any? I hope you sort this out:) and hope I have helped?
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I was kind of going to say this but (Super) already said most of what I was going to say. I am not a parent but I remember being in similar situations and others in these type of situations. I don't think your dad is trying to do it for you. I think he is trying to help and just ends up doing most of the work. I do not think he is to blame for your low self esteem either. If you dont bother doing your own work that's your own stupidity. The emotional problems have nothing to do with "Daddy" doing your homework. You just want someone to blame for all your problems. So to the OP get the fuck over yourself and take responsibility for your own issues.